The use of a double-sided dildo depends mainly on whether you use it alone or with a partner. It is designed so that two people can experience it at the same time, or one person can try different stimulation methods. The key is to relax your body and find the right posture and rhythm.
Whether you use it alone or with a partner, you must first relax your body. You can use your hands or the surface of the dildo to gently rub the sensitive parts first, slowly stimulate excitement, and let your body adapt to the touch. Lubricants are essential, especially water-based lubricants, which can reduce friction and make insertion smoother.
If you use it alone, a double-sided dildo can provide different experiences:
• Front and back stimulation: one end is inserted into the vagina, and the other end can be used to stimulate external sensitive parts (such as the clitoris) or try anal stimulation.
• Double insertion: If you are interested in anal sex, you can insert both the front and back parts at the same time, but you must slow down the rhythm to ensure that you can adapt. It is recommended to use a smaller size to avoid discomfort.
You can try different positions:
• Supine: Lie down, use one hand to guide the insertion, and one hand to stimulate the sensitive area.
• Prone: Adjust the angle so that the other end of the dildo presses against the sensitive area to provide additional pleasure.
• Kneeling: Helps to adjust the insertion angle and find the most comfortable position.
If two people use it together, the greatest pleasure of a double-sided dildo is synchronized pleasure. Common positions are:
• Face to face (scissor style): Two people face each other, legs staggered, and one end of each person inserts into their own body. This method can make each other closer, and eye contact will also make the experience deeper.
• Back to back (69 variation): Two people face each other, and each person controls the depth and rhythm they like.
• Front and back (rear entry): One person faces the other person, allowing the dildo to connect with each other and go deep together with the rhythm.
Communication is very important when using it with a partner. You can use eye contact, body language or direct expression of feelings, adjust the rhythm at any time, and find the most comfortable state for each other.
•When you first insert, your body may feel a slight discomfort, especially when it is not fully lubricated or tense. So you can slowly adapt, take a deep breath, and relax your muscles.
•After going deeper, you can adjust the angle, find the stimulation point (G spot or A spot), and feel a stronger pleasure.
•As the rhythm changes, the body will gradually become more sensitive, and you can adjust the strength appropriately to make the experience more layered.
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