The failure of the initial intercourse is very common. Generally, you need to pass 25 times to succeed.
Failure is a very common thing in the firsttime life. The failure is related to the experience of caressing or not. Most of the losers can be successfully combined after 25 attempts. Therefore, even if you fail, don&39;t be irritable or have any concerns and psychological shadows, you can try it after a short break, or wait for 12 days to wait for the emotions of the two sides to slap.
The blessing of husband and wife, focusing on communication
Sexual scientific research shows that having sex for both parties is a matter for both sides, and two propeller is needed to rotate at the same time before they can balance a aircraft.
If a propeller starts, the other is not cooperated with the other propeller, then you can&39;t fly. In fact, from the perspective of sexual psychology, in the process of sex for husband and wife, if the husband and wife do not have a tacit understanding, do not understand each other&39;s sensitive points, love posture, etc., it is difficult to live in harmony. Therefore, the sex blessing of husband and wife is focusing on communication. The two sides can communicate with sex feelings after each sex, so that the other party understands you better. When it reaches a certain tacit understanding, the other party&39;s eyes, gestures, gestures, and even moaning can be connected.
After sex, you can&39;t eat cold things right away
Sexual life often makes people feel hot and thirsty, so many people choose to eat cold food to relieve. However, changes caused by unknown excitement are concentrated in sensory nervous systems and endocrine systems. As sexual excitement fades, this change slowly restores the normal state. And eating cold food, even if it has a stimulating effect, is not limited to digestive tract.
However, due to sexual life, the sympathetic nerves are more excited, compared with usual, gastrointestinal blood will also decrease. Therefore, before the gastrointestinal mucosal congestion is not restored, drinking ice water and eating cold food will cause gastrointestinal mucosa to suddenly be cold and damage to the gastrointestinal and intestines. In severe cases, gastrointestinal discomfort or colic may also cause gastrointestinal discomfort. Therefore, whether it is summer or winter, experts suggest that if you feel thirsty after sex, you may wish to drink a small amount of warm water or cool white water, and try not to drink ice water or ice drinks.
Before and after sex, don&39;t forget to drink a glass of water
Drinking 12 cups of water before sex will make men&39;s sexual organs be more congested, more intense when erection, and longer. After hydrating, you can have sufficient water to help manufacture and transport hormones, and quickly produce secretions to provide lubricants. At the same time, it is also conducive to timely urination after sex, and can play a role in preventing urethral infections.
After the end of sexual life, drinking another cup of warm water can replenish the body consumed in time, which can increase blood dredging, accelerate blood circulation, help recover physical strength, and reduce the viscosity of blood at the same time.
Before sexual life, pay attention to personal hygiene cleaning
No matter how high you want, you should wash your body before sexual life and then love and love. Do not wait until you finish and take a bath. As everyone knows, this may be the beginning of the disease, it is likely to cause the urinary system to infect germs and cause inflammation.
Therefore, when enjoying the joy of fish and water, you must clean your body beforehand, and use soap or bath milk. Don&39;t simply rush to the grass. Some people prefer to use sex products or sex toys to help, and they should also disinfect and sterilize it before use.
Pay attention to new wedding contraception
After marriage, if you do n’t want to ask your child right away, you can choose to use a condom or external contraceptive pill (cream, tablet, membrane) to contraception. If you do n’t need a child within 2 to 3 years When you are pregnant, you should start oral contraceptives before half a year of pregnancy, and use other contraceptive tools during the drug discontinuation.
If the upper birth control ring contraceptive is adopted, after taking the ring 2 to 3 normal menstruation before getting pregnant. Women in Sheung Wan, regardless of the length of the loop, will have a certain impact on the uterine mucosa as a foreign body. After taking the ring, there must be a recovery time of the uterine mucosa. From the perspective of the eugenics, it should generally wait for 2 to 3 normal menstruation before pregnancy.
Etiquet
Everyone knows that being a person must be polite, but not everyone knows "sex" and also polite. When the two are in sex, if the man only cares about himself and does not care about each other&39;s feelings, or after the man is fulfilled, the woman is still unreasonable, his eyes show disgust, and even laughing, etc., will make each other unhappy or injured.
Sex experts remind that husbands and wives should follow sex etiquette: ask each other to solve the consent of the other party in advance; invincible as the obligations of the relatives; to conservative partners&39; sexual privacy; don&39;t talk about "business" in bed; Enter the climax together.
Women&39;s physiological period, early pregnancy, and last period of unsuitable life
During menstruation, women&39;s vaginal secretions will be neutralized and alkaline, becoming a good bacterial culture medium. At the same time, the endometrium will fall off, there will be wounds in the uterus, and the uterine mouth is slightly open. Bring bacteria into the body, causing inflammation of the reproductive organs. If there are chronic pelvic inflammatory disease, menstrual life will cause acute attacks. Menstrual sexual life can also be severely congested, so that menstrual blood increases, menstrual periods, or menstrual discomfort. In the first three months and last stages of pregnancy, sexual life will stimulate the development of the fetus in the uterus and easily cause miscarriage. Therefore, it is not recommended to live sex.
After the sex life is over, you can&39;t sleep immediately
After men, men usually feel fatigue. Therefore, many people like to fall asleep to sleep, thinking that this can eliminate fatigue. In fact, the fact is exactly the opposite, which will make the fatigue after ejaculation last until the next day.
Generally, when the husband and wife live in sexual life, they start from the sexual excitement to the end of the orgasm. Under normal circumstances, the duration is about 520 minutes, and some people will be longer.
The reason why sexual life is fatigue is mostly due to the result of controlling the reflex function of the cerebral spinal cord that controls the semen after ejaculation. The nerves are excited during ejaculation, and the nerves and spinal cord reflection nerve relaxation after ejaculation is relaxed.
Young people are sensitive and active, so they recover quickly, and some even recover immediately. For those who are older, the nerve response will be relatively slow, and the recovery time is relatively longer. If you fall asleep immediately after ejaculation, the fatigue function that causes fatigue will continue to relax, and the fatigue will be difficult to disappear.
Mode sex, correct time and frequency of time and frequency
Sexual life is not the more frequent, the better. Young or newly married couples, sexual desire will be stronger, and sexual life will be more frequent. However, with the increase of age, the number of sexual life will gradually decrease, about 12 times a week, and then gradually transition to once a week. The healthy couples of ordinary adults are not excessive 12 times a week, but for those who have poor health, they should be longer.
How to judge whether the number of sexual life is moderate? I do n’t feel tired after each sexual life, and it can be full of energy, happiness, and energy, etc. This is a moderate manifestation of sexual life. If it is sexual life, there is a sorrow, weakness, panic, shortness of breath, and sour head, etc., which indicates that sexual life is too frequent and excessive, and it should be restrained.
In addition, for healthy men, the time from the beginning of sexual intercourse to the occurrence of orgasm ejaculation is about 315 minutes, and a few people will continue for a long time from sexual intercourse to ejaculation. And women generally take about 515 minutes before the start of sex to the orgasm, but the individual difference is very different. Only in the process of sex, you can make full preparations in advance. Even if the sexual intercourse duration is short, both parties can be satisfied. All are normal.
