Experiencing a sex drive but finding it difficult or unable to masturbate (commonly referred to as "wanking") can be a source of frustration or confusion, but it&39;s not uncommon and can have various explanations.
Psychological Factors
1. Performance Anxiety: Feeling pressure or anxiety about masturbating can make it difficult to relax and enjoy the experience.
2. Body Image Concerns: Negative feelings about your body or discomfort with selftouch can impact your ability to masturbate.
3. Guilt or Shame: Cultural or religious beliefs, as well as internalized stigma around sexuality, can lead to feelings of guilt or shame about masturbation.
4. Trauma or Past Experiences: Previous traumatic experiences or negative associations with masturbation can affect your comfort level with selfpleasure.
Physical Factors
1. Medical Conditions: Certain medical conditions, such as genital pain disorders or hormonal imbalances, can cause discomfort or pain during masturbation.
2. Medication Side Effects: Some medications can affect sexual arousal and function, making it more difficult to masturbate.
3. Genital Sensitivity: Sensitivity issues or changes in genital sensation can impact your ability to achieve arousal or orgasm through masturbation.
