How do you have anal sex?

The anal area may feel strange when you first explore it, so start slowly.

If you decide to try penetrating (entering) the anus, touching and caressing it can help you relax. This is important because the sphincter (the muscle in the anus) needs to relax so that insertion is comfortable.

Use a generous amount of waterbased lube and work it in a little bit. Then, pull it out completely. When your partner is ready, penetrate further and then withdraw again. Continue this until you are inside. Listen to your partner and be prepared to stop at any time if they feel uncomfortable or in pain.

Anal sex can feel great for both the giver and the receiver, but it can also take a while to get to this stage. Your first experience may not be perfect, so please be patient.