Whether you&39;re exploring your prostate on your own, with a partner, or with multiple partners, or you&39;re using toys or body parts, there are multiple positions available for prostate play.
Missionary
Triedandtrue for a reason, themissionary positionis a great option for couples who want to mix in a dose of eyegazing, skintoskin contact, and heightened intimacy to their prostate play. If you&39;re the person receiving anal penetration, lie on your back. "Putting a sex pillow under your hips will help angle your anus up, giving your partner better access to stimulate your prostate with any body part or toy," says Zane.
Modified doggy
This option has you lie flat on your belly. Depending on mobility, comfort, and personal preference, your partner can lie at your side, straddle your hips, or kneel to the side of you. "While you lie there, your partner can spread apart your butt cheeks and can gently insert a finger or toys," says Zane.
If analingus is on the menu, he recommends starting with some external licking before moving on to internal flicking.
Spooning
Thespooning sex positionis a great option for couples exploring anal intercourse and pegging. Here, the partner receiving prostate stimulation takes the little spoon position while the giving partner gets in back. "While your partner stimulates your prostate, you can (and should!) stimulate your penis at the same time," suggests Zane.
Toys to help.
The world of prostate toys is as vast and expansive as, well, the anus of someone horny. Really, any toy that has a flared base or crook—which anchors the toy firmly outside the body—can be used for prostate play. It&39;s imperative that any toy that is inserted into any anus has a flared base so it doesn&39;t go up and get lost in your digestive tract.
Ahead, three categories ofsex toysthat work well for prostate play.
Butt plugs
Butt plugs do exactly what it sounds like they&39;ll do: plug your butt. Designed to go in your butt and stay in your butt, these toys create a sustained feeling of fullness. While the majority of butt plugs are shaped like carrots, some plugs have a slight curve that offers continuous pressure to the Pspot.There are butt plugs for anal play beginners and folks who are "advanced," so be sure to find the butt plug that&39;s most appropriate for your experience level.
Massagers
Prostate massagers, which often look a bit like Gspot massagers, are toys shaped perfectly for internal pzone stimulation. These are a great option for people who don&39;t have the mobility required to manually stimulate their own hole, as well as those skeeved out by the (small!) possibility of poop.
Dildos
Dildos, which look more phallic, are often longer and thicker than butt plugs or massagers, making them a great option for people who need a lot of pressure against their prostate. They&39;re also a good pick for someone who, generally, enjoys the sensation of anal fullness. However, they are not typically designed only for prostate play, so it takes a bit more skill to use them for this purpose.
Dildos can be used via hand during solo or partnered play. They can also be used in a harness to allow someone who doesn&39;t have a factoryinstalled penis to penetrate their partner, handsfree.
Your size preferences should dictate the dildo you invest in. Top dildo manufacturers includeFun Factory,New York Sex Toy Collective, andAvant.
