Orgasm is a magical thing. It makes the relationship between couples stronger and makes sex life passionate. But some behaviors in life often kill orgasm. For this reason, the American Men&39;s Health website has summarized six behaviors that affect orgasm through a survey of thousands of couples and provided solutions.
1. Haste
Getting straight to the point or using too much force without enough foreplay will delay the arrival of female orgasm. A famous New York gender expert said: Men mistakenly believe that skipping foreplay can make women reach orgasm quickly, but in fact it takes longer and has a worse effect. Experts suggest that slowing down, communicating more verbally and hugging can help both parties reach orgasm at the same time.
2. Frequently ask about feelings
During sexual intercourse, asking the other person about their feelings appropriately will help to master the rhythm, but if you often ask the other person how they feel, whether they are comfortable, etc., it will bring psychological pressure to the partner and make him (her) lack confidence. Hirschman recommends giving the other person more feelings and strong movements through body movements and facial expressions.
3. Don&39;t turn off the TV
Orgasm requires a certain amount of attention, so don&39;t be distracted. Sexologist Dr. Daniel Arel said that it is important to turn off the TV, computer and mobile phone in the room so that both parties are completely in a private space. In addition, do not expect to reach orgasm at the same time. Everyone should focus on their own pleasure. If one party reaches orgasm first, pay more attention to the other party next time.
4. Always want to imitate porn
Some men watch porn and get inspiration from it, thinking that sex should be as intense, plotbased and skillful as porn. But experts say that always wanting to imitate porn and treating sex as a performance will be counterproductive. What really opens the door to female orgasm is intimate language and behavior, not bad stupid skills.
5. Sudden change in frequency
Sex doctors say that when women are close to orgasm, men should maintain the same strength and rhythm. If men suddenly increase the strength or speed, the accumulated feelings of women will be invalid. So when women say don&39;t stop, just keep the frequency, don&39;t be more crazy.
6. Talk about failed topics
During sex, appropriate affirmation and praise can increase interest, but if some failed topics are mentioned, it may interrupt sex and affect orgasm. For example, suddenly asking someone if they are brushing their teeth or mentioning that there is no food in the kitchen or refrigerator will immediately arouse people&39;s interest.
