The seated position during sex is an intimate and comfortable way to engage in physical activity, allowing for more body contact and control.
1. Positioning:
One partner sits on a sturdy surface, such as a chair, sofa, or edge of the bed, with their back resting against a support, like a backrest or wall, to maintain stability.
The other partner straddles the seated partner, sitting on their lap with their legs wrapped around the partner’s waist or hips.
2. Intimate Contact:
The partner on top can hold the seated partner’s shoulders or neck for close body contact, while the seated partner can place their hands on the other’s back or hips to help control the rhythm and movement.
At this point, kissing, hugging, and maintaining eye contact can enhance the emotional connection.
3. Adjusting Rhythm:
The partner sitting on the lap can control the pace and depth by moving up and down or back and forth. With legs straddling the seated partner, they can adjust the angle and position to find the most comfortable and pleasurable sensations.
The seated partner can also assist by using their hands for support or making slight movements with their hips to match the rhythm.
4. Enhancing Stimulation:
Both partners can use their hands for additional body touching to increase pleasure. The partner on top can also rotate their hips, changing the angle of contact to enhance stimulation.
The close body contact in this position allows for a heightened sense of intimacy throughout.
5. Communication and Rhythm:
This position requires good coordination and communication, especially as the partner on top controls the movement while ensuring both partners remain comfortable and satisfied.
If either partner feels tired or uncomfortable, they can adjust the position or take a break to continue intimate interactions.