The "riding" position (also known as cowgirl) is a classic and popular sex position where the woman is on top, controlling the pace and movements, while the man either sits or lies down and relaxes.
1. Starting Position:
Man: The man can either sit on the bed, sofa, or lie down. If sitting, he can lean back against a backrest with his legs spread naturally.
Woman: The woman straddles the man’s lap or waist with her legs on either side. She can face him or have her back turned to him.
2. Control of Rhythm:
Woman in Charge: In this position, the woman controls the speed, depth, and rhythm of the movements. She can move up and down, sway back and forth, or rotate her hips to find the most suitable rhythm and angle.
Man’s Role: The man can support the woman’s waist or hips with his hands to help her maintain balance, or gently lift his hips to match her movements.
3. Enhancing Intimacy:
Eye Contact: If they are facing each other, they can maintain deep eye contact, which enhances emotional connection.
Touching: The man can softly caress the woman’s body to increase stimulation, while the woman can touch his chest or face to strengthen the intimacy.
4. Adjusting Angles:
The woman can adjust her angle to increase different kinds of stimulation, such as leaning forward to stimulate the Gspot more, or leaning back to change the depth and angle of penetration.
This position’s flexibility allows both partners to explore various movements and find what feels best for them.
5. Enjoying the Control:
Since the woman has more control in this position, she can adjust the rhythm to her comfort level. For the man, it&39;s a time to relax and enjoy, with less active participation in the movements.
