Hello, everyone. I am Wang Zhuzi. We meet again. A few days ago, I was really mad at a girl. She told me that she went out with her boyfriend some time ago. Then, her boyfriend tried hard to persuade her to have sex with her, and she agreed. As a result, she didn't have her period this month. He was so scared that he went to the hospital for a checkup, and it turned out that she just had endocrine disorder. The date happened to be his safe period, so he escaped. I really mad at her, and then I scolded her. I really mad at her because she didn't know how to protect herself. This time it was a fluke. Who knows if there will be such luck next time. Then in my private messages, some girls often ask me questions and ask what?
Hey, sometimes it’s uncomfortable to wear a condom, so I don’t want to wear a condom, and ask me what to do? Also, my boyfriend wants to ejaculate inside and asks me if I should agree to him?
I want to say, whether they are comfortable or not, what does it have to do with us girls? If he wants to have sex inside, do you have to satisfy him?
In fact, to put it bluntly, boys want to have sex inside just for their own pleasure. He doesn’t consider the life and death of girls at all, nor does he consider the risks we face. They are comfortable.
But we girls have to take very big risks. For this kind of thing that is harmful to girls, why should we go and shake it, we should firmly say no.
As for boys, they are addicted to sex inside, I also asked several male friends around me, and they answered that the first reason is definitely to meet physical needs.
For boys, there is definitely a physiological difference between wearing a condom and not wearing a condom. How to describe it? Let's put it this way. Wearing a condom is like wearing a glove to pick your nose. Although this metaphor is a bit indecent, it is actually almost the same feeling. In the end, you will definitely feel good.
But in this process, not wearing a condom is definitely more comfortable than wearing a condom.
The second is the psychological desire to conquer. Hey, I saw a joke on the Internet before. I don't know if you have seen it. It's about a girl cheating.
Then he and her boyfriend found out, and the boy went to question him.
Well, the girl said that if the other party wore a condom, it wouldn't be considered cheating. Although this is a joke, it is true that many boys feel that when they are doing that, they feel like they have never really owned the girl if they wear a condom.
Then my friend gave me a simple and rough summary. He said that the condom was the one that really had close contact with him, not me.
In addition, because many girls have a strong sense of self-protection, they will ask boys to wear condoms, which arouses boys' desire to conquer. They feel that not wearing condoms is to conquer the girl. Some girls are a little clear-headed and know that they must take protective measures.
But he will ask me how to satisfy boys without risk.
Actually, when I get to this point, I really want to complain, that is, why do I have to rack my brains to think about how to satisfy boys?
Although this thing is mutual to him, in my experience, there are really few boys who will ask how to satisfy girls. They are still very confident in themselves, and the starting point of sex is basically to satisfy themselves.
Then why do girls want to put satisfying the other party first? Back to this question, how to satisfy boys without risk.
Then I'm sorry, my answer is that there is no way, but we can try our best to reduce the risk. The safest way is to wear a set of physical isolation, which must be the most effective, but not completely safe.
Because no one can guarantee that there are no holes on the condom, so before using it, we still have to check it.
If you really don't want to wear a condom, then the second safer way is the safe period.
But pay attention, sisters, although it is called the safe period, it is not really 100% safe?
I have made a special video before, popularizing the safe period. Why is the safe period not really safe?
Because the accuracy of every girl's ovulation period is not certain.
Because the ovulation period will also change due to changes in the environment, emotional fluctuations, etc., external factors, and then cause the ovulation period to be advanced, then it is not certain whether your ovulation period is a safe period or when it is?
Some boys, just to avoid wearing condoms, will choose this method of peripherals.
During the process, no condoms are used, and after pulling it out, they think that it is okay. Many girls actually believe this. I have to remind you that this method is tantamount to covering one's ears and stealing the bell. During the process of sex, boys will also secrete some prostate fluid.
Although prostate fluid itself will not cause girls to get pregnant, it is very likely that there will be semen in it.
Then during the process of sex, if the prostate fluid mixed with semen enters the girl's body, what will happen?
Think about it yourself. Finally, I don't want to say it, but many girls will do this thing when they are in love, that is, take medicine.
First of all, taking medicine may fail, and no one can guarantee that it will be 100% successful in preventing pregnancy.
Secondly, most girls take emergency contraceptive pills afterwards. If they take too much emergency medicine, they will have menstrual disorders and endocrine disorders. If they take too much, it will affect pregnancy. In addition, there are long-acting contraceptive pills, which have great side effects and cause great harm to women's bodies.
There is also a short-acting contraceptive pill. Uh, I don't know if you have tried it. Its side effects are very small, but the cycle of taking it is very long. Generally, you start taking the first tablet on the first day of menstruation, and then take it for 21 consecutive days. If there is a break in the middle or one day, you accidentally forget to take it, that is, forget to take it, then it means that there is no effect.
As for satisfying boys, who told you that I must go without a condom to satisfy them.
Without a condom. For boys, his experience will certainly be better. That's right, but we can definitely increase their pleasure from other aspects.
For example, we can learn more postures, skills, and play some fun games, which can make boys enjoy more.
However, I still have to say that faith is a process of mutual satisfaction, which is actually correct.
Okay, don't ignore your own feelings and needs for the sake of the other party's satisfaction, otherwise this is a bit of putting the cart before the horse.
