Hello, today I went out to eat with a few friends who work on social platforms, and we talked about the current hookup environment in China.
Well, social platforms are actually easy to make, but also difficult. It's not because young people in China are generally spiritually empty.
But spiritual emptiness is difficult to fill, and one of the spirit and the body must be satisfied.
It is obviously easier to satisfy physical emptiness. It is difficult because most people who are active on social platforms are not just to satisfy physiological desires, especially girls, so many people use social platforms, but if they can't make a date for a long time, they will be disappointed with social platforms.
In fact, I think the purpose of boys playing on social platforms is relatively pure, mainly because girls' requirements are more difficult to meet, so there is a phenomenon that there are more wolves and less meat. What kind of boys are popular with girls?
Then more people will definitely think that it must be those who are bold and good at sex. That's not the case for boys. If they just want to hook up, they may basically only look at some external conditions, such as whether she looks good or not.
Is she in good shape? Is her breasts big or her buttocks perky? Simply put, boys think in a linear way, and they hook up to satisfy their sexual desires.
So when choosing a sex partner, they may directly look at the other person's sexual charm. But girls are not like that. Being hot and good at sex is of course important, but the more important point is that this feeling is very subtle. Every girl has different points, and you have to control it yourself.
There are often many boys who ask me why other boys can hook up, but I am either scolded, blocked, or blocked after being scolded.
Actually, I don't need to ask, I can guess why? But with a responsible attitude, I still asked a few people to send me the chat records. Good guys, every sentence hits the mark, I can read a few sentences for you.
First of all, the most classic one is to ask for a date right away? Do we think that all girls want to be asked for a date?
There is also the possibility that you think it is not good to have sex for free, and ask the girl, can you pay for it? Do you think you can disrespect people just because you have money?
Hey, this is actually insulting, you know? If you really give money, you are studying criminology, I beg you.
There are also some who use some vulgar and obscene words to address women right away.
How do you want to learn the alphabet circle? If you want to learn, you have to learn it thoroughly. In the alphabet circle, s-edition and m-edification are also based on the occasion and degree, and that is when the relationship has been established, and the person doesn’t even know you. You insult people right away, you really take yourself seriously.
There are also some people who chat and make friends. They all come up with opportunities. They don't say anything, but send a photo of their private parts first. You are pure sexual harassment, you know? Oh, I really couldn't help it. I personally think that the so-called courtesy is not to ask others, if they don't want to, it's polite not to say that you are willing to give money, it's polite, it's that you don't treat the other party as a tool for desire, put aside your desires and treat them as an equal communication person to chat politely first. During the chat process, if both people feel that this aspect is okay, then you can get it done. If you even skip these processes of equal communication in chatting, what respect is there? In fact, in my opinion, only polite and respectful boys can pass the first test of girls. Of course, in addition to this point, being good at being angry is still a great advantage. Being angry is innate, and you can't change it even if you want to. I won't say it then. But we can still learn and improve this job. Then today I will give some superficial suggestions to boys from a female perspective. The first one is foreplay, I don't know why.
For some boys, foreplay is so difficult. In fact, you just need to temporarily restrain your desire, don't be so impatient, and then caress and kiss.
Do I need to teach you kissing? As for caressing, I think there are some skills, which requires attention to the location and strength.
Well, in general, it is to gently caress and kiss the sensitive parts of girls, such as ears, backs, and chests. The strength can be gradually increased, but it is best not to be too heavy.
The initial time does not need to be too long, about ten minutes is just right. The second is the process, how do you find the base point, this is what the extreme dive life, I don't think it needs to be too complicated.
Today's video can't be explained in detail, but I want to emphasize one point, that is, don't use the same posture all the time, but don't change postures frequently. If you keep using the same posture, everyone will get tired of it, and girls will also think you are boring.
However, if you change positions frequently, girls may not be careless. Believe me, they will only feel annoyed later.
You are still complacent and think you are good at playing. In fact, I think that four to five positions are enough for one sex.
Finally, comfort after the fact. For girls, the feeling in their hearts is more important. Don't do it after the end, hey, I will clean it myself.
When smoking there, we should be more considerate. We can help girls wipe it, and then hug each other and chat, or take them to the bathroom and take a bath together.
This is a good experience for us girls. It is also a good plus point for you, and there may be a second, third or even longer time.
The last type is the rich. Well, some people may say, hey, didn't you say it at the beginning?
It's not enough to pay money? In fact, it's like this. When we girls see that it's a boy, whether we are willing to pay or not has nothing to do with whether he is rich or not, or whether he pays or not.
Girls always have this kind of romantic mentality, right? If you have some financial ability, and you prepare some gifts, then of course you will be more popular with us girls, and you will be more liked by us girls.
Hey, it's also a plus for you. But if you find someone who is only interested in money, then this person will only care about how much money you give. If you give less, he may think it's not worth it, so of course he won't be willing to give.
If you are willing to pay enough material, then of course you will be in high demand. But if you are looking for a partner who is not interested in money, and he just wants to have fun, choose what he is satisfied with, and make himself happy, then you are willing to give money but he won't want it, right?
Here I will give you an example, a real story. Some time ago, I also recorded some stories about that friend of Haiwang. He actually met a girl he liked very much on the Xinmeng platform. He wanted to be a mistress to her, and chat with her every day, play games with her, and spend money on her after that, but in the end, it didn't work.
Later, I took out another card and deposited 100,000 yuan on it, saying, "Hey, this card is for you. Please give me some time." The girl also refused.
What do I want to say? Sometimes girls just want a little feeling. You have that feeling.
Based on this feeling, if you give some money and buy some gifts, you will be more pleasing to girls.
But sometimes girls are very strange creatures, you know? Even if you have money and spend money, I may not like you. That won't work.
