Why do men try not to date women in their forties? Someone who has experienced this will tell you that the real reason is very real.
Many times, as for most men, men like young and beautiful women. To put it bluntly, men like younger women. Perhaps it is the middleaged atmosphere of young women, or perhaps it is other reasons.
On this issue, most men have the same idea. Although most men like young women, there are still some men who do not follow the crowd.
Because in their hearts, those middleaged women in their forties are not only more feminine, but also mostly pure and charming.
Therefore, there are still many men who pursue middleaged women in their forties.
Then the ideas of these men are not wrong, and they are particularly correct.
Some middleaged women in their forties have better conditions in all aspects than those women in their twenties.
It is natural for men to pursue them. But when we look at the problem, we must see the essence through the phenomenon.
In other words, it is not wrong for men to pursue middleaged women in their forties, but some of the inherent characteristics and qualities of middleaged women are often not suitable for some men to pursue. Why try not to touch women in their forties?
People who have experienced it will tell you that the real reason is very real. Mr. Zheng, who is in his thirties, will be more realistic and will not easily agree to be with a man.
Mr. Zheng is already in his thirties and still has no girlfriend. His age is not a big deal in big cities, but in rural areas, he is a typical leftover man.
Mr. Zheng also wants to find a girlfriend to marry as soon as possible, but the main reason is probably because his family conditions are not very good. At this age and with this condition, he dare not expect to find a girl in her twenties. He even thinks it is a luxury to find a woman of the same age.
Originally, he thought that no matter how bad his conditions were, it should not be difficult to find a middleaged woman in her forties.
Later, through someone&39;s introduction, he met a middleaged woman in her forties. However, this woman was not only divorced, but also had a child. Mr. Zheng reluctantly agreed.
But what happened next caught him off guard. The woman asked him directly when they met for the first time, "You can earn 10,000 yuan a month, do you have a house now?"
Do you have a car, how much bank deposit do you have, do your parents have a pension, and so on.
After asking, Mr. Zheng was sweating profusely and didn&39;t know how to answer.
At this time, Mr. Zheng felt that middleaged women in their forties were more likely to come for his material conditions than for others. Maybe they are more mature and rational than young women, and they understand that material conditions are more important than any other conditions.
What men want is that if their economic strength does not allow it, they should try not to touch middleaged women in their forties. If they insist on doing it, they will only make you bruised and battered.
Mr. Ke, who is 20 to 32 years old, will be a stronger man, most of them are retired.
Mr. Ke is 32 years old this year. He had been on several blind dates, but all ended in failure.
Originally, he had no courage to find a partner, but until he met a middleaged woman in her forties, the spark of love ignited in his heart again.
This woman is still single. She is very beautiful and has a good figure. She is not inferior to a girl in her twenties in any aspect. She also agreed to be with Mr. Ke. When he thought that he was an older leftover man, he was so happy that he couldn&39;t express it in words.
But after dating this woman for a while, Mr. Ke felt a little regretful and uncomfortable.
It turned out that this woman was good in everything else. But perhaps because she felt that she was in her forties and there were still men pursuing her, she was overconfident, and thus became more aggressive in temper and personality.
Although Mr. Ke is not a male chauvinist, he is a real man after all. He is also good. For the sake of face, which man can tolerate a woman who yells at him every day, and even makes the big and small things happen to them. In their eyes, men are more like decorations.
Mr. Ke believes that fortyyearold middleaged women who have not married at this time are mostly because they are very confident and strong. Even if they are just ordinary women, if men do not have a certain psychological tolerance, it is best not to touch them, so as not to humiliate themselves.
Mr. Hong, who is thirtysix years old, is too demanding on men, even Mr. Hong, who is perfect.
This year, he is thirtysix years old. He is a divorced man. After the divorce, he also wants to start a new life as soon as possible.
Later, he found a middleaged woman in her forties who was also divorced. Mr. Hong thinks that since both of them have been divorced, it should not be so difficult to get along and runin.
But Mr. Hong was eventually defeated by reality. In the process of getting along with this woman, the woman would criticize his every word and action, even his snoring when sleeping, his smacking of lips when eating, and his loud voice when making phone calls.
In his eyes, these are also some bad habits. Mr. Hong, originally thought that this woman had some kind of cleanliness obsession?
But later he finally figured out that women in their forties may have dealt with different men, so naturally they have richer experience and wider social life.
Therefore, they will be too demanding on the men who are with them, and even require that the man has no flaws at all, similar to a perfect man.
Mr. Hong frankly said that middleaged women in their forties have experienced the vicissitudes of life, but their requirements for their other half will never be so simple. Their choice will only be the best man. If they don’t know themselves, try not to touch them, so as not to offend the source.
In fact, middleaged women in their forties have unique characteristics that young women do not have.
Therefore, in most cases, more and more men will come to them. This has to be said that their feminine charm is strong, and they are more popular with men, but they also know that women in their forties certainly have their own unique advantages.
However, they certainly have some bad things in them. But they have their bad parts, so we must face them with the right attitude and perspective.
