It&39;s really easy to get a girl&39;s body, but many people make some common mistakes.
Today we&39;ll talk about how to avoid these mistakes.
How to properly pursue a girl and capture her heart? First of all, we need to understand some basic principles that can help you get on the right track from the beginning.
First, when a girl complains to you, don&39;t give her advice. When a girl complains to you, she is often not looking for a solution, but looking for a listener.
The wisest choice at this time is to follow her complaints and don&39;t rush to give your opinions or suggestions.
Because this may make him feel that you don&39;t care about his feelings. On the contrary, by listening and understanding his emotions, you can establish a deeper connection.
Every time Xiaomei encounters difficulties at work, she will come to Xiaoming to complain. Xiaoming never rushes to give advice, but just listens to Xiaomei quietly, and occasionally gives some comforting words. Gradually, Xiaomei begins to feel that Xiaoming is the person she trusts most.
First, don&39;t ask, allow direct action. Those masters of love never make physical contact after getting permission from girls.
In fact, asking too many questions will result in a high probability of being rejected. As long as the girl does not give obvious rejection signals, you can take bold action.
Girls usually do not explicitly reject someone they like. But if you ask too many questions, he may feel uncomfortable or think that you lack confidence.
Third, when walking, hug his waist boldly. When you are walking with a girl, if you want him to follow your footsteps, you can hug his waist boldly. Most girls will not resist this intimate contact.
Because it will make them feel safe and cared for. During a warm autumn walk, Xiao Zhang gently hugged Xiao Li&39;s waist. Xiao Li did not resist, but felt a warm sense of security.
From that moment on, he began to prefer Xiao Zhang&39;s company. Fourth, don&39;t be humble when pursuing a girl. Pursuing a girl requires a balance between confidence and respect.
If you are rejected, don&39;t be humble. This behavior will not only make you appear disrespectful to the other person, but also make you unattractive in her eyes.
On the contrary, when you are rejected, you should maintain your dignity and continue to improve yourself. Studies have shown that excessive pursuit and entanglement will stimulate a girl&39;s defense mechanism, making her more likely to refuse.
Maintaining distance and selfesteem is the key to building a healthy relationship. Fifth, learn to end the latenight chat when you are having fun.
When you chat with a girl late at night, no matter how speculative the chat is, you must learn to end it when you are in high spirits. This will make her feel unsatisfied, so that she will fall in love with chatting with you and think about you all day long, and your attraction to her will also be strengthened.
Xiaohong and Xiaoqiang chat until late every night, but Xiaoqiang can always end the conversation at the climax, making Xiaohong look forward to the next chat.
Sixth, don&39;t confuse touching with love. When pursuing a girl, no matter how much you like someone, you can&39;t lose yourself.
When you try to exchange her love by touching him, he will think you are boring. Even if he responds to you, it is just for a lesson. Your true love needs to go both ways.
So the first thing to do is to improve yourself and make yourself an attractive person.
When Xiaogang tried to impress Xiaoli with various small surprises, he began to feel that Xiaogang was boring.
On the contrary, when Xiaogang focused on improving himself, Xiaoli began to feel that Xiaogang&39;s changes had aroused greater interest in him.
Seventh, don&39;t chat too much online, and meet offline as soon as possible.
Chatting online often leads to many misunderstandings. Because the more you say, the more mistakes you make, which is not good for you, so you must meet offline as soon as possible.
Because facetoface communication is the best way to show your value. Xiaowang and Xiaoli chatted online for a long time, but until they met offline, Xiaowang found that Xiaoli was not what he imagined, but fortunately, their offline meeting was very successful.
From then on, their relationship was quickly upgraded, so there is no one who is higher in love.
If he always needs you to look up to him, it means that you can&39;t have a result at all.
In love, both parties should be equal. If you feel that the other party is always trying to make you look up to him, then there may be problems in your relationship. Equality and respect are the basis for maintaining a healthy relationship.
When one party always tries to control or look up to the other party, the relationship will soon collapse.
Ninth, don&39;t confess, countless relationships end here. Although confession is a release of emotion, it may also become the end of a relationship, and countless relationships can continue to ferment.
It doesn&39;t stop here, so you have to keep calm, don&39;t rush to confess, slowly build a relationship, and let the feelings grow naturally.
Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li&39;s relationship is going very smoothly. But Xiao Zhang was eager to confess after a romantic dinner. As a result, although Xiao Li was moved, the relationship began to stagnate.
Tenth, let the feeling be in place. Facts are not important. In love, feelings are more important than facts.
No matter how much material you provide, if he doesn&39;t feel for you, there is no story between you, but no material can change the research shows that people are more driven by emotions in love, rather than rational considerations.
When a girl has feelings for you, your relationship will really develop. Eleventh, boys who have not been in love much are easily moved.
If you are in love for the first time, it is very common to be easily moved. Once there is a girl and a little hobby, you may feel that you love each other.
But in fact, in the eyes of the other party, you haven&39;t even reached the stage of friends, so you must make rational judgments.
When Xiaolin first dated a girl, he quickly felt a strong love.
But he later found out that the girl&39;s goodwill was just a friendly response.
Don&39;t spend money recklessly, including red envelope transfers. It is the responsibility of her boyfriend to give gifts and spend money with the girl. You should upgrade the relationship step by step. Don&39;t be anxious. Don&39;t rush to give gifts or transfer money. This will make you look very immature, or make people feel that you lack selfesteem.
Xiao Huang always tries to win the girl&39;s heart by giving gifts and transferring money, but the result is that the girl increasingly feels that Xiao Huang is immature and disrespectful. He needs skills and patience to pursue a girl.
First you need to understand how to listen and respect the other person correctly. Then you must have enough confidence and action, but at the same time maintain dignity. Don&39;t pursue or entangle excessively, which will make you lose attraction. Meeting offline and establishing real connections are the key to upgrading relationships.
Finally, remember that feelings are more important than facts, and true love requires twoway running.
