In some aspects, women do want you to understand them, but they are afraid that you understand them too much. They have unique physiological and emotional needs.
Sometimes even they themselves find it difficult to fully understand this contradictory psychology, which is the charm of women.
Today, let us take a deep look at the two major physiological needs of women and how to get along with women better by understanding these needs.
First of all, we need to understand that women&39;s psychological and physiological needs are very complex, and multilevel understanding of these needs will help to better establish and maintain healthy relationships.
Women&39;s physiological needs are not limited to sexual desire, but also include emotional satisfaction and psychological security.
When they interact with men, they often show an attitude of wanting to refuse but also to welcome.
Behind this attitude, there are deep psychological needs and desires. Then you are lustful in chatting. Studies have shown that women&39;s lust is not lower than that of men, and may even be higher in some aspects. This determines that they dare to talk about any topic when chatting.
Especially in conversations with girlfriends, the scale is so large that you can&39;t believe it.
But why do many women prefer to find a chat partner online rather than say a few more words to you?
This is because women can freely release their nature in front of strangers, but they will remain reserved in front of familiar people, fearing that they will be misunderstood as casual women.
So brothers, if you want women to chat with you passionately, then you must do the following points. First, take the blame for women and give them a step down, so that they feel that you are the one who brought them to chat with you, and they are forced to do so, so that they can maintain their dignity as women.
Second, don&39;t put pressure on women, making them feel that they must be your girlfriend after chatting with you for a long time, so that they can get along with you without worries.
When you can do the above topics with women, the more perverted they are, and the faster the two of you will get together.
When you get along, I hope you have a cold style. You say you like a woman, you lick the man who treats him well, treat him well, and you circle around him all day, and ask him about his wellbeing, but the result is that women don&39;t look down on it at all.
This is because what women can&39;t get is always the best. The better you treat him and the more you accommodate her, the more he can&39;t help but feel disgusted.
You may even make him feel guilty and sorry for you, but there is no way, this is genetic, and it cannot be changed. Women want to torture his emotions and bring him hot and cold men.
The reason why he won&39;t tell you is because he is afraid that you will think he is cheap, and he is even more afraid that you will know how to control him from now on.
But he is addicted to this feeling, and he enjoys the process of being in the ambiguous period the most.
Then he will be worried about your words at this time. He will miss you for a few days and will be excited to sleep all night because you said good night to him. When you don&39;t look for him, his mind is full of thoughts, what are you doing?
Whether a woman is happy in a relationship does not depend on how good you are to him, but on how much he has tasted.
Let&39;s put it another way. When you can warm him when you are free, and be cold when you are busy, and when he is no longer around him, women will love you the most.
Let&39;s use a story to better understand these physiological needs. Xiao Ming is an ordinary college student. She fell in love with a girl named Xiao Li.
Xiao Li is a very cheerful and lively girl who likes to chat with her friends about some perverted topics.
Xiao Ming found through observation that Xiao Li often talked about some very bold topics when chatting with her girlfriends.
Xiao Ming decided to try to see if he could get close to Xiao Li in this way.
One day. Xiao Ming took the initiative to guide the topic in the chat and talked about some perverted content.
Xiao Li was a little surprised at first, but was soon attracted by Xiao Ming&39;s boldness and humor. Xiao Ming not only took the blame for Xiao Li, but also gave her a step down, and made her feel that she did not have any pressure.
Xiao Li gradually developed a good impression of Xiao Ming. However, Xiao Ming did not treat Xiao Li well blindly. She maintained a proper sense of indifference and alienation, occasionally giving Xiao Li some warmth, but more often she would be cold.
He Xiao Li would worry about gains and losses because of Xiao Ming&39;s words, and couldn&39;t sleep all night because of Xiao Ming&39;s good night.
Xiaoli felt unprecedented excitement and happiness in this hot and cold emotion.
In the end, Xiaoli fell in love with Xiaoming completely. Because Xiaoming can be warm when he is free, and he can be cold when he is busy. He no longer revolves around him, and Xiaoli feels tortured and controlled by Xiaoming.
This is exactly what she desires most. From the perspective of evolutionary psychology, women have a natural preference for men who torture their emotions.
This is because in the long process of human evolution, men who can stimulate women&39;s emotions are often more likely to have the opportunity to reproduce.
Therefore, women have a natural preference for men who torture their emotions.
In addition, when women interact with men, they often show an attitude of wanting to refuse but also to welcome.
There are deep psychological needs hidden behind this attitude. Women hope to test men&39;s patience and determination in this way.
At the same time, they also hope to protect their emotions in this way. In summary, women&39;s physiological needs are very complex, and multilevel understanding of these needs helps to better establish and maintain healthy relationships.
Women are eager to show lust in chats, but they need a step to maintain their dignity.
They also hope that men will be indifferent when they are together, because they enjoy the ambiguous period the most.
At that time, by understanding these needs, you can get along better with women and build a deeper relationship. Remember to maintain a proper sense of coldness and alienation, and occasionally give them some warmth.
