It can be tricky to decide which lube to use, as there are different kinds available, each with their pros and cons. So, let’s compare waterbased, oilbased, and siliconebased lubes in more detail, to help you choose!
Is a waterbased lubricant the right lube for me?
generally safe for most sexual activities
These areand are:
safe with diaphragms
safe with latex condoms (always double check your lube is compatible with the protection method you’re using)
safe with dental dams
safe with sex toys
nonstaining
safe if swallowed in small amounts during sex (check the packaging to be sure)
easy to wash off
a more natural alternative and have fewer chemicals than siliconebased lubes
What should I be aware of when using waterbased lubricants?
They dry out faster, so you usually need to keep reapplying. It’s also not the best choice if you want to use it in the shower because it washes off easily.
Is an oilbased lubricant the right lube for me?
With their creamier texture, oilbased lubricants are excellent for:
longlasting slip and glide
their moisturising, sensual feel
masturbation
foreplay and other sexual activities including hand jobs and fingering
Sex toy play
longlasting
safe to use with most latex condoms, latex dental dams, and latex diaphragms (doublecheck the product instructions)
good for use in water
What should I be aware of when using siliconebased lubricants?
You can’t use siliconebased lubricants with silicone sex toys, silicone diaphragms, or other silicone products. This is because the silicone in the lube can damage silicone products. Siliconebased lubricants can leave behind a sticky residue.
