Whether it is a boyfriend or girlfriend or a couple, quarrels are inevitable. What is the fastest and most ruthless solution?
In the minds of girls, it is a cureall. Buying a bag for him will solve everything. It can often solve many problems, and the practical index is very high.
But for boys, buying a bag is not their first choice of solution, but a more direct and intense way, that is, to have an angry sex. Angry sex is a mixture of passion and contradiction.
In a movie, after the male and female protagonists broke up, they started quarreling when they met. Then they used the shell of the quarrel to show their longing for each other, from hysterical quarrels to warm intimate contact.
This transformation seems to have a magical power. In the process of quarreling, emotions are out of control, and both parties are in a state of high tension.
However, this tension, in some cases, will turn into a strong desire.
Just like a sister once confided in her, if she moved, I would glare at her, and there would be an inexplicable sense of pleasure, venting the anger towards the partner through intimate behavior. In the last second, they were still arguing, and in the next second they were in passion, as if the argument became the foreplay of this special sex.
This kind of sex with pain is more crazy and selfless.
It is not only a physical release, but also an emotional healing, nurturing the inner dissatisfaction. Compared with other intense reactions, angry sex seems to make the relationship between two people reconcile quickly, or even warm up.
It lays the groundwork for the next intimate contact. The second point is the chemical reaction behind the intimate behavior.
When two people experience a hearty battle, although they will be a little tired, the feeling of being drunk and dreaming makes people feel that life is worth it.
At this time, the girls in the eyes of boys will become graceful, and the boys in the eyes of girls will become tall and mighty. What about highquality sexual experience?
Why can it increase the intimacy between two people? There is a scientific reason behind this.
When we have a painful and happy sexual experience, the brain will secrete dopamine, which is the source of activating our body&39;s happiness.
In addition to dopamine, there will also be the secretion of endorphins, which is like pure natural morphine, making people happy physically and mentally, satisfied from the bottom of their hearts, and producing a sense of happiness.
Under the action of these happy factors, anger, anxiety and pressure seem to have lost their foothold.
At this time, if boys can give girls some postsex kisses and hugs, it will further stimulate the body to secrete oxytocin, greatly reducing the anxiety of both parties and enhancing the intimacy and dependence on their partners.
However, it should be noted that in the state of quarreling, the expectations of both parties for angry sex may be different.
If the two sides are arguing, and they use their eyes to hint at voluntary sexual behavior, then there may be a chance for reconciliation.
But if the boy takes the approach of forcing the girl, and the girl is in anger, fear, anxiety and other emotions and does not want to cooperate, then you will only add fuel to the fire, and the consequences will be disastrous, just like some sisters shared her experience. When she and her boyfriend were upset, her boyfriend did not want to take a shower, so she held her breath and added a few drops of chili oil to the boy&39;s shower gel.
The third point is to be cautious about the precautions for intimate behavior under high negative emotions.
If you really can&39;t hold back under high negative emotions, what problems should you pay attention to when having intimate behavior?
First of all, pay attention to the intensity. In angry sex, a docile person may become a wild person.
Some girls think that this kind of sex makes her experience the feeling of being taken over by her boyfriend, which is okay for desire and endurance.
For girls, one intimate time may work. If it doesn&39;t work once, try twice, but in any case, pay attention to the intensity to avoid excessive harm to the other party.
Secondly, we need to communicate afterwards. Angry sex can only solve superficial problems or help us escape problems temporarily, but it cannot solve the real problems.
Therefore, we need to calm down and communicate patiently afterwards to smooth out the conflicts and the outbreak points.
Girls need more respect and understanding from the other party. If we don&39;t pay attention to this, and wait until the next time a similar conflict occurs, we can expect to sleep and solve the problem, and the practical index will plummet.
In life, when we encounter real problems, physical collision can only bring refreshing collision of thoughts and execution, which is the real solution. Using sexual behavior to ask for reconciliation or to please the other party is not the most real idea.
The potential risk is active. One party may use angry sex to control. The other party may be more comfortable with intimate behavior after a quarrel in a healthy intimate relationship than usual.
Well, for a bad intimate relationship, every angry sex may be a step further than breaking up.
So the experience of angry sex is good, but don&39;t mess around. Well, angry sex is a complex and special emotional phenomenon.
It has both passion and release, but also risks and challenges. When facing quarrels, we cannot rely solely on this method to solve problems.
Instead, we should be more rational and resolve the differences through dealing with contradictions, communication, understanding and respect.
Under high negative emotions, when engaging in intimate behavior, we should pay attention to the intensity of communication and avoid violence to ensure that this behavior does not cause greater harm to both parties.
Only in a healthy intimate relationship can angry sex become a unique emotional seasoning to add color to the relationship.
But if the relationship has problems, then this relationship, then this method may bring more trouble.
So we must be cautious about angry sex and let it become a helper of our relationship, not an obstacle.
