What happened to the man who was addicted to swapping friends? A fan sent me a private message saying that he heard from his friends not long after getting married that swapping was worth trying. He was a little tempted, but he had no experience and didn&39;t know whether he should try it.
So I did a survey to see what happened to those men who had this experience. It was absolutely true.
Let&39;s talk about the first man first. He is anonymous. His age and job are confidential.
The location is Beijing. At first, he proposed to swap with a friend he knew. His friend firmly disagreed and thought it was strange. But after trying it a few times, his wife gradually liked this model.
He also thought his wife was quite acceptable and had a good time. But there was a problem. One night, when he was with his wife, his wife called his friend&39;s name several times. He was so angry and felt very uncomfortable. He asked his wife directly, and his wife said that she just called it casually.
After this, he was humiliated because of his age. He proposed to change someone, but his wife didn&39;t want to, saying that she was used to it and there was no need to change like this.
Because of this incident, they never reached a consensus and finally divorced. After the divorce, his wife was actually with his friend. He realized that he had fallen in love with her a long time ago.
Let&39;s talk about the second man, 27 years old, his job is confidential, and his location is in Shanghai. He and his girlfriend have a tacit understanding on the issue of exchange, and they can accept each other.
Later, they joined a small group similar to a club. There were all kinds of people who specialized in this. Some had boyfriends and some were married. Some had various professions, such as lawyers, accountants, and doctors. Most of them were in good condition.
When he and his girlfriend joined for the first time, they felt that they had opened up another world. But later, they didn&39;t know how many people they exchanged. Anyway, they had sex frequently.
Originally, they thought they could continue to play like this, but the reality was cruel. They got into trouble after playing too much.
He had several diseases, and his girlfriend was also diagnosed after the examination. Now he dares not play anymore. He said it out to warn those who want to play.
The third man was 33 years old, a manager of a private company, and he was based in Hangzhou. He also requested anonymity. He said that he was also confused and became addicted to the world of exchange after playing for a long time.
Since the exchange, he and his wife can only have sex a few times a year. He is getting less and less interested in his wife, not only in sex, but also in daily life. He is tired of seeing his wife. He fell in love with one of the women and wanted to divorce her to be with him, but the woman didn&39;t think so. She said that playing is playing, but feelings are separated from this. He couldn&39;t do it and suffered a lot. Even if he didn&39;t have the chance to marry that woman, he didn&39;t want to be with his wife anymore.
But the problem of children gave him a headache, and he hadn&39;t figured out what to do. The last man, a 35yearold selfemployed person in Zhejiang, was also addicted to exchange and thought it was okay.
At the beginning, his wife couldn&39;t accept or understand it. Under his constant persuasion, his wife agreed to try it, and soon, his wife also liked it and had a lot of fun.
Before, they had been fine and didn&39;t quarrel. But once, when they were in bed, his wife actually praised the skills of another man in front of him.
Well, they talked for a long time. He felt that his wife looked at him with a mocking look and couldn&39;t help it. He felt that the quarrel was so fierce that the neighbors called the police.
After the police arrived, the wife pretended to be a victim. That night, the wife went to stay at her bestie&39;s house and said that it was okay to play, but she said that it was okay to play, but you hit her and wanted a divorce. He disagreed, so the wife said that they should separate. Anyway, she didn&39;t want to go home, so she just wanted to see who was better.
Let&39;s analyze the experiences of these men. First of all, this kind of behavior is really dangerous. It will not only destroy the relationship between the two, but also may cause various diseases.
Just like the second man played too crazy and got sick, and once he fell into this behavior, it would be difficult to return to a normal relationship between husband and wife.
Like the third man, he became more and more annoyed with his wife and even fell in love with someone else. In addition, this kind of behavior can easily cause contradictions and conflicts.
For example, the fourth man wanted to hit his wife just because she praised others.
In the end, they had to divorce, so swapping is definitely not a behavior worth trying.
It will bring a lot of trouble and pain to your life. Although married life is beautiful, it is not about exchanging with different people, but about exploring and enjoying the pleasure with the same person.
We should cherish the people around us and establish a healthy and stable relationship, and not be blinded by temporary illusory enjoyment.
Otherwise, you will regret it in the end. I hope everyone can learn from this and stay away from this dangerous behavior.
