Sex Position: 69
The 69 sex position is one of the best positions for double pleasure, because both people can give and enjoy at the same time.
How to do it: One person lies on their back while the other climbs on top, creating the illusion of the number 69. Private parts should be aligned with the partner's mouth, and vice versa. Or, try side by side.
Sex Position: Iron
This sex position creates a tight fit, so the giver's penis or strap-on dildo feels larger.
How to do it: One person lies facedown on the bed with legs straight and hips slightly raised. The top can enter from behind
Sex Position: Face to Face
This sex position gives you full control over the angle and depth of the intercourse. "The top person can control the rhythm of the thrusts," Thomas says. "Plus, with your bodies so close together, there's bound to be friction on the outside of your clitoris." Plus, your hands are 100 percent free—you can touch yourself or wander to your partner's erogenous zones. "Pull your hips forward to hit the G-spot and stimulate your clitoris at the same time," Morgan advises.
How to do it: Your partner sits on a chair (or bed), facing each other, with you sitting on his or her lap.
Position: Cowgirl
"This is one of the classic sex positions and works best with sex toys," says Thomas. You can take control and add a vibrator or try opening your legs to different sizes. If you want to amp up the excitement, press your partner's hands over his or her head (or tie them up), or try a blindfold or nipple clamps for a more intense experience.
How to do it: You kneel on your partner and place your hands on his or her chest. You can lean back a little and put your weight on your partner's pelvis to make it easier.
Sex Position: Cowgirl Assistant
The "Cowgirl Assistant" takes the load off your legs, making it easier for you to orgasm. You can freely switch between deep (sitting upright, hips thrust forward) and shallow (leaning forward) penetrations to stimulate different parts of your vagina, such as the G-spot. Another option: "Sit back and rock your hips back and forth. Imagine you're riding a horse in a very naughty way... It feels a little weird, but it works really well," says O'Reilly.
Sex Position Method: Very similar to cowgirl, you kneel over your partner and place your hands on his chest. But your partner should grab your hips or thighs to take the load off you.
Sex Position: Reverse Cowgirl
This is a variation on the classic cowgirl. Again, you can control the rhythm and angle of the thrusts. For more pleasure, Thomas suggests having your partner change the position a little. "Have your partner bend their knees so you can stimulate their clitoris." Your partner's thighs can rub against your clitoris, giving you double the pleasure.
How to do it: The man lies on his back and you straddle him, facing his feet.
Sex Position: G-Whiz
This sex position is great because lifting the legs contracts the vagina and helps target the G-spot.
How to do it: One person lies on their back with one leg over the shoulder of the top. The top can be entered from the front.
Sex Position: Champagne Room
This sex position lets you control the speed and intensity and works for both vaginal and anal sex. Plus, your hands are free to move: stimulate the clitoris, caress your partner's thighs or anus. Be flexible with your rhythm. "It's fun to alternate between fast and slow," O'Reilly says.
How to do it: Your partner sits down and you sit on him or her with your back to him or her.
Sex Position: Om
If you want slow, intimate, hot sex, definitely try the Om. It's better to rock your hips than to pull them forward -- this stimulates the clitoris and slowly builds to a final orgasm. Plus, eye contact can increase intimacy. It's easier to control the pace in this position, Thomas says. "Steady, constant stimulation is key to most people's orgasm. It's easy to achieve in this position," agrees O'Reilly, adding, "Rubbing your partner's pubic bone stimulates your clitoris."
Sex Position: Your partner sits with their legs crossed, and you sit on his thighs facing him. Wrap your legs around his body and hold each other for balance.
Sex Position: Wheelbarrow
In addition to exercising your arms, this sex position allows you to penetrate deeper.
Sex Position: The first person stands up and has the second person grab their pelvis. Then, the first person clamps their thighs around the second person's waist.
Sex Position: Sloth
This sex position puts you in control and increases intimacy. Think of your partner’s pelvis as a masturbation toy, rubbing it back and forth to stimulate your clitoris. “Rocking back and forth can bring pleasure to the vulva,” says O’Reilly. For something hotter, Thomas suggests adding some nipple stimulation. “If your partner bites, licks, or massages your nipples, it can increase sexual desire for both parties.”
Sex Position Method: Your partner sits on the bed with his legs open and a pillow behind his back. You sit on his waist with your feet on the bed. Bend your knees and use your hands to insert your partner’s penis (or dildo) into your body. Use the soles of your feet to lift or lower your body, and the rhythm is up to you.
Sex Position: Butterfly
Think of this sex position as doggy style, but with deep eye contact and a full view of your partner's body. Besides the perfect angle for penetration, Thomas says this position is "effective." "It's very convenient to stimulate the clitoris with your hands, sex toys or thighs," Laino adds, and don't forget to stimulate the nipples.
Sex Position: Leap Frog
If you want to penetrate deeply, this sex position is a must. "This position requires arching your back to increase the depth of penetration," Thomas adds, and you can also stimulate the clitoris to increase sexual desire. If you find manual sex too tiring, you can use a vibrator.
Sex Position: This is a variation of doggy style. The other person gets on all fours with their hips raised, and you enter their body from behind with your fingers or a dildo.
Sex Position: Graduate Representative
This sex position is a great test of your flexibility, and can increase the depth of insertion and clitoral pleasure. Thomas added that rubbing the vulva is also one of the benefits of this position.
Sex Position: Start with the missionary position, and the other person raises their legs up (in a V shape).
Sex Position: Spider
Sitting opposite each other, both parties can clearly watch the entire intercourse process. You can also have your partner put their legs on your shoulders so you can move more easily. Want to get even hotter? Use your hands to stimulate your partner's clitoris, nipples, or inner thighs.
Sex Positions: Sit on the bed facing each other, legs extended toward each other, arms supported behind. Then move your crotch closer. Your partner's hips will be between your legs, with your knees bent, legs on either side of his hips, and feet on the bed. Then start moving your body back and forth.
Sex Position: Missionary
Missionary is a very popular sex position. Thomas believes that this position is so popular because the woman's clitoris can rub against the partner's body. In addition, eye contact can also increase intimacy.
Sex Positions: This should go without saying, right? Your partner lies flat on his back, and you lie on top of him.
Sex Positions: Magic Peak
You're not really on top in this sex position, but you're still in control. You can decide how your clitoris rubs against your partner's pelvis. Plus, because you're face to face, you can feel the physical and spiritual connection. "Eye contact increases intimacy and allows both parties to focus on what's going on," Thomas said.
Sex Positions: Your partner sits with his legs bent and leans back on his hands and forearms. You do the same thing, and then you two come together.
Sex Positions: Golden Arches
You can freely control the depth, speed, and angle. "This position allows you to explore different depths of penetration," says Thomas. Your body can easily lean back, increasing G-spot stimulation, and it's easier for your partner (or yourself) to stimulate your clitoris.
Thomas's tip is to make sure you arch your back. "Arching your back changes the angle of stimulation of the vaginal wall and clitoris."
How to do it: Sit with your partner's legs straight, and you sit on your partner's thighs with your knees bent, while you both lean back.
Position: Chair
This position is great for G-spot stimulation. Plus, both parties can use their hands for caressing. "You can masturbate with your hands, or lead your partner's hands to caress yourself," says O'Reilly. This position is great for exploring various penetration angles. "Leaning forward or backward can change the angle and find a position that both of you like."
Sex Position: Your partner sits on the edge of the bed, and you sit on him/her with your back to him/her.
Sex Position: Woman astride
You can stimulate the G-spot while controlling the speed and depth of sex. In addition, it is obvious that your partner can touch your clitoris and breasts. You can do it in front of a mirror, and the hotness index is guaranteed to be off the charts.
Sex Position: This position is very similar to "cowgirl", but with some slight changes. You ride on your partner, lean back, and put your upper hands on the bed for support, at a 45-degree angle to your partner's legs.
