Interestingly, before I went to college, I knew nothing about men and women and even thought that sleeping together could lead to pregnancy.
After graduating from college, I met a group of roommates who loved driving. They always spread knowledge to me, so I naturally know something.
When I first talked to them, they were silent, no one had ever experienced that. They all felt that the first time was very important and were a little scared because they heard others say that the first time was painful.
In the end, we came to a consensus: the first time should be given to the most suitable person.
The concept of the most suitable person is very vague. Whenever we are in a sweet love, we think this is the right love. This is the person I want to rely on for the rest of my life.
As your relationship gets closer, the idea that you have to be with him will become stronger and stronger.
This is normal. When you are in love, you will regard the other person as the most important person.
The scary thing is that the person you think is the most suitable or leaves you, and you have no contact since then, the most suitable person becomes the past, the person you thought was the most suitable in the past.
Maybe you gave it to him the first time, maybe sometimes you regret it, because now he is no longer the most suitable person.
I want to hear girls talk about their first feelings (tell me about your first feelings with your boyfriend)
The biggest fear when you lose your virginity for the first time is that your boyfriend will mind that you are not a virgin. This is not uncommon, and more importantly, some people use it as an excuse to break up.
This society is always conditioned to believe that girls must be clean, boys can be casual for the first time, it doesn&39;t matter, they are not virgins, and boys will not suffer anyway.
I&39;m extremely tired of this view, and I&39;ve scolded every man around me who thinks this way.
More than the first time, every time you have is precious, regardless of whether you are a man or a woman.
No one gives anyone a first time. This is not a gift, but a mutual process. You have a special sense of love ritual every time, which is fair to both men and women.
If you want to ask what age is suitable for the first time, there is no answer to this question, such as a thousandyearold widow like me.
The reality is that everyone is an adult, does the right thing at the right time with the right person, and is responsible for his or her actions.
I specifically asked this question to the emotional guru among my friends. She thought carefully and answered me: I think I can accept the first time after 20 years old. At this time, my thoughts will be more mature. I know what I&39;m doing and I can take responsibility for my actions.
When we have the ability to accept consequences, think rationally, and make judgments, we have choices.
I once felt very sad for a classmate who got pregnant and had an abortion just after she turned 16. I did something impulsive and couldn&39;t bear the consequences. Even the money for abortions was borrowed from everywhere. I clearly remember the day she aborted the child. She sent this message: I will never forget today, a little life was left because of me.
Now that he had been separated from that boy for so long, it wasn&39;t the right person or the right time, let alone the right thing to do.
I have seen this view on the Internet: the first time I give you must be true love.
What I want to say is that the first time is not the test of whether it is true love.
The roommate told us a story about her and her boyfriend. The first time they were together, the roommate offered to stay with him, but the boy refused.
Tell her that a girl is safe: It&39;s not because I don&39;t love you enough that I won&39;t be with you, but because I love you, so I protect you. If you give it to me for the first time, if it&39;s not me who stays with you in the end, you will be in pain. When I Be able to be sure enough that I can give you a future and then we can.
A boy who loves you will control himself and always think about you, your present, and your future. True love means cherishing, protecting, and restraining.
The first time is sacred and mysterious. It is a major experience in our life. Our first time may be crazy or natural.
No matter what you choose, on the premise of mutual respect, girls should learn to protect themselves, and boys should know how to be responsible.
