Performing oral sex involves providing pleasure to a partner using the mouth, lips, and tongue.
For Performing Oral Sex on a Woman (Cunnilingus):
1. Start with Foreplay: Begin with kissing and gentle touching to build arousal and make your partner comfortable.
2. Explore and Tease: Use your lips and tongue to gently explore the outer and inner areas of the vulva. Tease different areas, such as the labia and clitoris.
3. Focus on the Clitoris: The clitoris is highly sensitive, and stimulating it can be very pleasurable. Use your tongue to make gentle, varied movements such as flicking, circling, or licking.
4. Vary Your Technique: Alternate between gentle and firmer pressure. Experiment with different patterns and speeds to find what feels best for your partner.
5. Use Your Hands: Incorporate your fingers to gently stimulate the vaginal opening or other erogenous zones while performing oral sex.
6. Pay Attention to Feedback: Listen to your partner’s verbal and nonverbal cues to adjust your technique and focus on what they enjoy.
For Performing Oral Sex on a Man (Fellatio):
1. Start with Foreplay: Begin with kissing and touching to enhance arousal and make your partner feel at ease.
2. Use Your Hands and Mouth: Gently stroke the shaft of the penis with your hand while using your mouth and tongue to stimulate the tip. Combine licking, sucking, and gentle nibbling.
3. Focus on the Head: The tip of the penis (glans) is very sensitive. Use your tongue to explore and stimulate this area, as well as the frenulum (the sensitive area on the underside of the head).
4. Vary Your Technique: Alternate between gentle sucking, licking, and varying the speed and pressure. Experiment with different movements and techniques to discover what your partner enjoys most.
5. Communicate and Observe: Pay attention to your partner’s responses and communicate to ensure you’re providing pleasure. Adjust your technique based on their feedback.
6. Use Lubrication: If necessary, use a flavored or waterbased lubricant to enhance comfort and pleasure.
