For some trans women, it is possible to become more comfortable with your penis if you reinterpret it as a clit.
I didn&39;t have the profound genital dysphoria that you and a lot of other trans women experience. However, I had an experience that might offer a different perspective.
One of my longterm lovers was a lesbian who had never had a sexual encounter with a penis, and she didn&39;t want one. She did, however, want me. She was able to treat my penis as a clit on an extension chord. She was able to treat my scrotum as the labia that it has become since my bottom surgery. That reimagining worked enough that we could enjoy our sex life together.
From my own experience, I know that even when I was penetrating a lover with my penis, I would perceive it internally, and it would feel as if my lover was "fucking me with my own dick."
And, asAlec Fanesuggested, your genitals aren&39;t your only erogenous zones. If you like being penetrated, the ass can be a delightful substitute for the vagina you don&39;t have quite yet.
And don&39;t forget your breasts! If you are on hormones, you will soon discover that your breasts become much more sensitive. I have a very vivid memory of when the estrogen/nipple/clit connection went online. I was walking down the hallway in my house wearing a silk nightie, and I literally had to drop to my knees, the sensation was so intense.
You have options, my sister. Some are built into your body, which is already a woman&39;s body, because you are awoman. Other options can come from your woman&39;s mind.
