Using "dirty talk" or provocative language during sex usually depends on the comfort level and emotional connection of both parties. This language can increase intimacy and excitement, but you need to make sure that both parties are comfortable with this communication method and willing to participate. Here are some suggestions and precautions:
1. Make sure both parties agree
Communication: Before engaging in any form of provocative conversation, make sure both parties are comfortable with this communication method.
Respect: Respect the other person&39;s feelings and boundaries, and don&39;t use language that the other person may not like or feel uncomfortable with.
2. Tips for using provocative language
Express emotions: You can use sweet and intimate language to express your appreciation and love for the other person. For example: "You make me feel so happy."
Increase stimulation: Provocative language can be used to increase passion and excitement, such as describing feelings or expectations of the other person&39;s body. For example: "I love the feeling of you touching me."
Ask and respond: You can ask the other person about their feelings or expectations and adjust based on their feedback. For example: "How do you feel now?" or "What can I do to make you more comfortable?"
3. Pay attention to the choice of language
Positive and respectful: Use positive and respectful language to express emotions and desires, and avoid derogatory or disrespectful words.
Avoid excessive: Avoid using overly vulgar or offensive language, and ensure that the communication method remains within the acceptable range for both parties.
4. Observe the other party&39;s reaction
Sensitivity: Observe the other party&39;s reaction and make sure they are happy with what you say. If the other party shows discomfort or unwillingness, adjust the communication method immediately.
Feedback: Listen to the other party&39;s feedback and adjust your language and behavior according to their reaction.
5. Practice and try
Explore: You can gradually try provocative language in daily communication to understand the other party&39;s preferences and reactions.
Creativity and humor: Keep humor and creativity to increase the fun and intimacy of sex.
6. Keep open communication
Post-sex discussion: After sex, you can discuss what makes you feel happy and how to improve the communication method.
Understand the other person: Understanding the other person’s likes and discomforts will help improve future experiences.
