Sexual intercourse cannot proceed smoothly, psychological and physiological factors may be involved, including the woman being too nervous, causing the vaginal muscles to contract, and in severe cases even vaginal spasm. Some women also have difficulties in first intercourse because their hymen is particularly strong and not easy to rupture. To determine the cause, the woman can ask the doctor for a detailed gynecological examination, or seek services from the Family Planning Association&39;s birth control guidance center. Having had painful experiences during sexual intercourse will make you psychologically afraid of sexual intercourse, which is also a very common female sexual life disorder. You have not had sex for half a year, and it is rare that your partner can understand your concerns. Sex is a part of marriage, and you should also try to face it for yourself and your partner. There are many ways to overcome this obstacle, but the most basic is to increase your knowledge of sex and sexual behavior, and then communicate well with your partner. Sexual behavior requires coordination between both parties, and communication and accumulation of experience are very important. Of course, you should learn the correct sexual knowledge, master the relevant skills, make adequate preparations, and cooperate with each other before you can gradually adapt.