Before making any decision, you should consider the motives, consequences and responsibilities. Your boyfriend often asks you for sex. What is his motive? Is it out of love? Curiosity? Satisfying his personal sexual desire? If you have sex on impulse, the price you pay is really high! If you do not use effective contraceptive methods during sexual intercourse, the chance of pregnancy is very high. Even if you use contraceptive methods, no method is 100% effective. Has he thought about you? What if you get pregnant unexpectedly? Is he a promiscuous person? Is there a possibility of contracting sexually transmitted diseases? Are you over 16 years old? Hong Kong law stipulates that if a man has sex with a girl under the age of 16, regardless of whether the girl agrees or not, it is a criminal act and the man will be prosecuted. How is your relationship? Do you understand each other? You should know that sexual behavior must be based on mature emotions. If you have decided not to have sex with him after careful consideration, then you should firmly refuse him! Communicate with him! Explain your feelings and decision. If he loves you, he will respect your decision. No one can force you to do anything you don&39;t want to do. You also have the right and responsibility to protect yourself. If you decide to have sex with him, then you should also communicate and understand the motivations for having sex and the responsibilities you should bear. You should learn how to use contraceptive methods and understand how to deal with and seek help in case of accidental pregnancy. The Family Planning Association has a Youth Health Center. If necessary, you can seek help from them. Please click here to visit the website of our Youth Health Service.
