How to Talk About Sex

　　How to talk about sensitive topics naturally: a communication guide from intimacy to parent-child education

1. Communication strategies with new partners

1.1 Establish a frank dialogue

　　Use progressive expressions:

　　Initial stage: "I want to talk about our expectations for intimacy"

　　In-depth: "Which method do you prefer regarding contraceptive measures?"

　　Alternative terms for reference:

　　▫️ Intimate contact Physical communication

　　▫️ Sexual behavior Intimate moments

　　▫️ Foreplay Emotional preparation

1.2 Set clear boundaries

　　Golden rule: Make the first refusal clear

　　"This request makes me uncomfortable, and I hope it won't happen again in the future"

　　Scenario response demonstration:

　　▫️ Tentative contact: "Please stop, this is beyond my acceptance"

　　▫️ Continuous pressure: "I need to reconsider our relationship"

1.3 Health protection dialogue

　　Test communication words:

　　"Is it convenient to share the recent physical examination report? My test results are here"

　　"To be responsible for each other, how about we go for an STI screening?"

　　Safety measures suggestions:

　　▫️ Carry individually packaged protective equipment with you

　　▫️ Regularly update health tests (recommended every 36 months)

2. In-depth communication for long-term partners

2.1 Continuous dialogue mechanism

　　Demand expression formula:

　　"When ______, I feel ______, I hope we can ______"

　　Frequency adjustment demonstration:

　　"Recently, work pressure is high. Can we try to reserve exclusive intimate time every week?"

2.2 Consensus building method

　　Relationship element list:

　　▫️ Intimate scene preference (time/place/atmosphere)

　　▫️ Emotional needs priority (passion/security/freshness)

　　▫️ Definition of relationship exclusivity

　　Annual relationship review:

　　Establish an "emotional annual summary" day

　　Use a relationship satisfaction scale (110 points for mutual evaluation)

2.3 Two-way communication skills

　　Non-violent communication template:

　　▫️ Observation: "I noticed that the last three intimate contacts ended in a hurry"

　　▫️ Feeling: "This makes me feel alienated"

　　▫️ Demand: "I hope we can create a more focused environment"

　　▫️ Request: "Can we arrange two non-distracted dates next week?"

　　Daily training suggestions:

　　Establish an "intimate topic day" (the first Friday of each month)

　　Create a shared memo to record changes in preferences of both parties

3. Implementation Guide for Children's Sex Education

3.1 Natural Guidance Skills

　　Life Scenario Teaching Method:

　　▫️ Bathing: Explain body cleanliness and protection

　　▫️ Pet pregnancy: Extend life education

　　▫️ Film and TV plot: Discussing healthy relationship boundaries

　　Response strategy:

　　"This is a good question. Let's start with..."

　　"Some details will be discussed when you are older."

3.2 Educational resource recommendation

　　Age-based toolkit:

　　▫️ Picture book: "Knowing the Body" (58-year-old pop-up book)

　　▫️ Video: AMAZE.org Adolescence Series (12+)

　　▫️ Interactive platform: TeenHealth (Chinese and English bilingual Q&A community)

　　Localized resources:

　　China Youth Reproductive Health Service Platform

　　"Protecting Green Apple" Children's Anti-Sexual Assault Animation