Post•orgasm torture (POT) is a form of erotic play that involves prolonging or intensifying sensations after orgasm, often by continuing stimulation or introducing discomfort. It's important to approach this practice with clear communication, consent, and trust between partners.
• Consent is Crucial: Before engaging in post•orgasm torture, discuss boundaries, limits, and desires. It's essential that both parties feel comfortable and agree to the play.
• Safe Words: Agree on a safe word or gesture that allows the submissive partner to stop the activity if it becomes too overwhelming or uncomfortable.
• Gentle Aftercare Touch: After orgasm, light touches, caresses, or even soft teasing can be used to keep the sensation alive or to heighten it. This can be enjoyable for some, though others might find it overstimulating.
• Vibrators or Toys: Using a vibrator or other sex toys on the body after orgasm can increase sensitivity. However, this should be done gradually, as it can be overwhelming immediately after climax.
• Slow and Teasing Penetration: Some people enjoy the sensation of continued penetration or stimulation after orgasm, though it can be intense. Slow, deliberate movements can be part of this process.
• Manual Stimulation: Gentle but persistent hand movements on sensitive areas (such as the genitals, nipples, or inner thighs) can keep the body on edge after orgasm, leading to heightened sensations or even delayed orgasms.
• Cold and Hot Sensations: Alternating between hot (a warm towel or hot water bottle) and cold (ice cubes or cold objects) can intensify post•orgasmic sensations. The shock can be pleasurable and disorienting, which is part of the appeal for some.
• Wax Play: Dripping hot wax onto the body can provide an intense sensory experience. It's crucial to use wax specifically designed for skin play, as regular candles can burn or cause injury.
• Edging: This technique involves bringing the partner close to orgasm multiple times without allowing them to climax, then letting them come at the right moment. After orgasm, the play can continue by stimulating the body in different ways.
• Orgasm Denial: After orgasm, continuing stimulation without allowing another orgasm can create frustration and heightened sensitivity, leading to a form of "torture." This is often used in power play dynamics.
• Impact Play: Some people enjoy light spanking or use of floggers or paddles after orgasm, which can bring sensations of pain and pleasure. This should be done with care and at a level that the person receiving it enjoys.
• Pinching and Nipple Play: Some people find that post•orgasmic sensitivity makes nipple pinching, squeezing, or even using clamps more intense. Again, gradual and gentle application of pain or pressure can heighten the experience.
• Tease and Deny: Verbal teasing or dominating language after orgasm can keep the person in a vulnerable state, heightening their emotional response and arousal. This form of psychological play can be just as intense as physical sensations.
• Control and Power Play: For those who enjoy power dynamics, post•orgasm torture can be a way to enforce dominance or submission. This could involve verbal commands, forcing the submissive partner to stay in position, or ordering them to perform certain tasks even after orgasm.
• Important to Provide Aftercare: Post•orgasm torture can be intense, so aftercare is crucial. This might include cuddling, talking about the experience, offering hydration, or simply ensuring that both parties are emotionally and physically comfortable afterward.
