The technique of cunnilingus (oral sex) requires careful attention and patience, as everyone's sensitive areas and reactions are different.
• Before engaging in oral sex, make sure both parties feel relaxed, especially the recipient. If you are nervous or anxious, sexual feelings will be greatly reduced.
• Increase emotional connection through eye contact, whispering, or kissing to make the other person feel safe and comfortable.
• Initially, you can use the tip of your tongue to gently touch the labia to explore the soft skin. You can start from the outside of the labia and gently slide between the labia majora and labia minora, gradually finding the most sensitive areas of the other person.
• During this process, you can wrap your lips around a part of the genitals and gently suck or hold a small area.
• Circular motion: Use the tip of your tongue to massage the outside of the labia in a circular motion. This motion is gentle and can arouse the other person.
• Slide up and down: The tongue can slide gently from bottom to top along the outside of the labia, touch the base of the clitoris, and then slowly move up to around the clitoris to feel the other person's reaction.
• Directly stimulate the clitoris with the tip of the tongue: If the other person is particularly sensitive, you can touch the clitoris with the tip of the tongue and stimulate the other person's pleasure by quickly swiping up and down or left and right. But avoid excessive force to avoid discomfort to the other person.
• Sucking the labia or clitoris: You can gently suck the skin around the clitoris or the labia minora, which can increase the other person's tension and deepen the pleasure. Don't suck too hard, you can cover a small area with your lips and breathe gently.
• Nibbling or tongue tip stimulation: Gently scrape the clitoris with the tip of the tongue, or gently bite the labia minora or clitoris with your teeth without applying too much pressure. This stimulation sometimes brings unexpected pleasure, but be sure to pay attention to strength and gentleness.
• Vary the movements of your tongue and lips to avoid single stimulation. By changing the rhythm, you can make the other person's excitement continue to increase.
• For example, alternating slow licks with fast licks, or taking a short pause, can leave the other person with a sense of anticipation and increase the impact of the orgasm.
• You can gently insert your fingers into the vagina and use the combination of fingers and tongue for double stimulation. This method can accelerate the orgasm because two different senses are mobilized at the same time.
• In this case, make sure your fingers are clean and use gentle techniques. You can use your fingers to make a "spoon" shape and gently stimulate the G-spot to increase pleasure.
• The clitoris is usually the most sensitive part of a woman, and many women reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Therefore, try to focus on the clitoris, especially in the early stage of orgasm, and give it a moderate and gentle lick.
• Use the tip of the tongue to gently sweep over the top of the clitoris, or stimulate it in a circular manner. You can wrap your lips around the clitoris and gently sweep the top of it with the tip of the tongue. The rhythm can be gradually accelerated to increase the excitement.
• Combining tongue and fingers: When the tongue is licking the clitoris, the fingers can enter the vagina for slight insertion, or use the fingers to massage the area around the clitoris. The coordination of fingers and tongue can accelerate the orgasm of the other party.
• Alternate between licking the vagina and kissing the breasts: When licking the vagina, you can kiss your partner's breasts or nipples at the right time. By alternating, your partner's erogenous zones can be fully activated, increasing the level of pleasure.
• Always pay attention to your partner's reaction and adjust your movements. You can judge whether she is close to orgasm by her breathing rate and body reactions (such as a slight lift of the hips or muscle tension).
• Encourage your partner to express her needs. She may tell you that she prefers a certain rhythm or stimulation method. Through this interaction, you can adjust your skills more accurately.
• When your partner is close to orgasm, her breathing will become rapid and her body will begin to tense up involuntarily. At this time, you can increase the rhythm or strength to welcome the arrival of orgasm.
• After the climax, continue to maintain gentle touch and let your partner slowly recover from the climax. You can gently lick her genitals and maintain a comfortable rhythm to give her a gentle aftertaste.
