Women's physiological orgasm is a complex process involving multiple physical, psychological and emotional factors.
• Excitement phase: The body begins to respond to stimulation, the heartbeat speeds up, the breathing becomes deeper, the blood flows to the genital area, the clitoris and nipples become sensitive, and the vagina begins to lubricate.
• High phase: Pleasure gradually accumulates, the whole body is tense, the muscles contract slightly, and the orgasm is about to come.
• Peak phase: The vagina and uterus contract strongly, the pleasure hits the whole body like a wave, the heart rate reaches a peak, accompanied by a strong sense of pleasure.
• Subsidence phase: The pleasure gradually weakens, the whole body enters a state of relaxation, and there may be an aftertaste and a short-term sense of satisfaction.
Each woman has different sensitive points, but most women are most sensitive to stimulation in the following areas. Mastering the correct stimulation methods in these areas can make her enter the state of excitement faster and gradually accumulate pleasure.
(1) Clitoris
• Gentle touch: At the beginning, use your fingertips to gently massage in circles, do not press directly.
• Wet stimulation: You can use your tongue to lick, or use lubricants to increase the smoothness and make the stimulation smoother.
• Rhythm changes: Do not always use the same strength or speed, combine fast and slow, sometimes light and sometimes heavy, to make the pleasure have a sense of hierarchy.
• Intermittent pause: When approaching orgasm, pause for a few seconds before continuing to stimulate, which can enhance the intensity of orgasm.
(2) Vagina
• G-spot: Located about 3-5 cm from the front wall of the vagina, it feels rough. When stimulating, use the "hook hand" gesture and gently press or massage with your fingers.
• A-spot: Located deep in the vagina, close to the cervix, it can induce deeper pleasure. You can try to touch slowly and deeply, combined with clitoral stimulation.
• Uterine rim: For some women, gentle impact on the uterine rim can bring a strong orgasm, but she needs to be relaxed enough, otherwise she may feel uncomfortable.
(3) Nipples and areola
• Licking with tongue: Licking in circles with the tip of the tongue to increase the wetness and then gently sucking.
• Biting and sucking: Biting the nipple gently and then slowly releasing it will bring a subtle tingling sensation.
• Finger kneading: Gently rotating the nipple with the thumb and index finger to create delicate pleasure.
(4) Ears, neck, waist - neglected erogenous zones
• Ears: Gently licking the earlobe or whispering something ambiguous in her ear will make her feel excited.
• Neck: Slowly kissing from the back of the neck to the collarbone will make her tremble slightly.
• Waist: Sliding your fingers along the curve of the waist or gently grabbing the buttocks will increase her desire.
(1) Slow-burn teasing
• Start with the non-genital area, such as kissing the neck, ears, and waist to gradually excite her.
• After her body is fully lubricated, move on to the core sensitive areas, such as the nipples, clitoris, and vaginal opening.
(2) Progressive stimulation
• Gentle caress → Apply appropriate pressure → Increase strength → Change rhythm
• Avoid a single rhythm, sometimes fast, sometimes slow, so that she can feel the change of rhythm and avoid losing the stimulation due to pleasure adaptation.
(3) Pre-orgasm control
• When she is about to reach orgasm, stop stimulating for a few seconds and then continue. This will make her pleasure more intense and the final orgasm more intense.
• Stimulate the clitoris and vagina at the same time, such as stimulating the G-spot with fingers and licking the clitoris with tongue at the same time
• Double stimulation of nipples + clitoris, allowing pleasure to accumulate from multiple sources simultaneously.
• Adding a vibrator can enhance the stimulation effect, especially for the sensitivity of the clitoris and G-spot.
✅ Breathing becomes rapid and she begins to moan unconsciously
✅ The pelvis unconsciously caters to your movements
✅ Muscles become tense and the legs may tremble slightly
✅ The inner wall of the vagina begins to contract rhythmically
✅ She may hold her breath and stop moving for a short time
