I accidentally saw a message from a girl, who said that she had been single for a long time, but recently she always wanted to have sex inexplicably, and sometimes she couldn't sleep because of it. I was curious about how single girls solved their sexual desires.
The answer is actually very simple: masturbation. This matter is really important, especially for us women. Others and the outside world may ignore this topic, but as the owner of the body, those two small petals contain our exclusive pleasure, which is precious and worth seeing and cherishing.
You just need to follow the voice of your heart and block out the noise and chaos
When others forbid you and say you can't, dance a masturbation dance in your own world and awaken the pleasure of your body with your hands.
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Masturbation, as a behavior of self-exploration and self-pleasure, has existed since ancient times. For women, masturbation is not only a physiological need, but also a deepening of self-cognition.
Many times, we are too taboo about sex. In fact, it is really common. We are exposed to it almost every day. The need for sex is also one of the basic physiological needs of human beings.
Like the high school student mentioned at the beginning, through masturbation, we can satisfy our fantasies and desires, and relieve some pressure and tension. When you are under great pressure or depressed, masturbation is actually a good way to love yourself. If you haven't tried it, you will know~
In a relationship between the sexes, masturbation can allow women to understand their bodies and pleasure points more deeply, so as to better express their needs and preferences in intimate interactions with their partners.
For example, many women will complain to me that they feel that their partners are rough, not attentive enough, and always anxious. In fact, if you just want him to change, it is basically impossible to achieve, unless the man has a very high level of self-awareness and cognition, and respects and understands women very much. If you meet such a man, it is a kind of luck.
But in life, more people just want to satisfy themselves quickly. At this time, the biggest hope is that you change. When you change, you not only improve your level of self-cognition, but also can better guide him. Otherwise, it is said that men are teenagers until they die. I think a large part of the meaning lies in this.
In short, there are many benefits of masturbation~ Try more, you will definitely have a wonderful experience.
In addition, moderate masturbation can also help improve our sleep quality and relieve menstrual discomfort...
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When you start the formal masturbation dance, please make sure that you have abandoned those negative labels and prejudices, truly accept and love your body from the bottom of your heart, and do not feel ashamed of sex. Only in this way can you fully feel the beauty of sexual pleasure and bring the ultimate experience~
Next, let's get started~
✅Do a good job of cleaning
Women's private parts are very delicate and easily troubled by bacteria, so cleaning is a very important thing before and after, including your own hand hygiene and nail crevices, as well as the cleaning of small toys.
If you have manicure on your hands, it is not recommended to start directly. You must remove the manicure first. If you have a partner to help you, cut the nails on his/her hands short and make them rounder~
✅Create a safe and comfortable space for yourself
Some people like to do it in a familiar bedroom, while others like to do it in a bath. No matter where, the place must be private and safe enough to be undisturbed. If you like claustrophobic feeling, you can draw the curtains and turn on the atmosphere lights, and let your lust flow slowly with the flow of music.
✅Watch a movie to warm up
Remember? The brain is the largest X organ. Don't worry if you don't feel it, just mobilize your brain. You can watch some novels or movies that can arouse lust according to your preferences. While watching, you can also gently touch some sensitive parts of your body with your hands.
✅Explore the techniques that suit you
Everyone's body is unique, so you need to find the techniques and skills that suit you best in the exploration process to get better pleasure~ You can start by gently touching the petals, gradually increase the strength, and try different stimulation methods such as pressing, pressing, rubbing, rubbing, kneading, etc. Some people may have felt great pleasure here, congratulations!
If you think your body can accept deeper pleasure, then you might as well clear the clouds and go to the inner garden to find more sensitive areas, such as the exciting G-spot~~ Of course, it is also important to find a comfortable and suitable posture. However, I believe that many people will feel that the petals are more sensitive than the V-channel. After all, there are more than 10,000 sensitive nerves on the female clitoris~
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Finally, I would like to talk about pleasure again. If you have read this carefully from the beginning of the article, you will find that in the second part I introduced some self-pleasure techniques, or some correct ways for women to open their own pleasure. After many years of X education and contact with various cases, I found that compared to not knowing how to please their bodies, women lack more psychological pleasure.
And the biggest enemy of this psychological pleasure is self-restraint. What is self-restraint? It means that I feel that I can't do it, I can't have a G-spot, others can do it, but I can't, there must be something wrong with me... People with these negative shackles are very heavy in their hearts, psychologically unhappy, and physical pleasure may be more difficult.
Pleasure is your right.
It is like enjoying delicious food or drinking nectar. Believe that you can do it. You can, really. Learning to identify yourself over and over again and believing in yourself is the key step to pleasure. Every repetition of self-identification is an affirmation and encouragement to yourself.
When you really start to practice this, you will find that physical pleasure is as easy as pie~
The first step and core of pleasure is not C-spot, G-spot, K-spot, or hand-spot, but psychological pleasure.
The topic of female masturbation has actually been written many times, but why am I still writing about it? It is because I hope that every woman can regard masturbation as an exploration and respect for her own world of desire, and can throw away the shackles of the outside world again and again, return to the most authentic secret of happiness in the heart, and find true and lasting happiness and satisfaction in the process.
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What does it feel like for a woman to orgasm? A large number of real users in the "Heidi Sexology Report" wrote down their feelings in the questionnaire:
I became very high-spirited - breathing rapidly, brain failure, as if entering a dream, sound coming from a distant place, and time fell into a state of delay and stillness. Happy, energetic, excited, ecstatic, like lying in foaming cream. Like standing on the edge of an earthquake zone.
Before orgasm, my clitoris will become very active, it will begin to send pleasure information around like lightning, all over the genitals, and then, like a strong spotlight sweeping over, showing a bright image on the radar screen, that is orgasm!
Before orgasm, my clitoris seems to be on fire, swinging and vibrating constantly, until a wave of heat suddenly rushes to my genitals, and the orgasm comes, and my contraction period follows closely, feeling the inner wall of the muscle slapping and cheering happily for the arrival of orgasm.
A breathtaking local pleasure, an irrepressible feeling, like a rocket launching into the sky, a rapidly disintegrating pleasure rises, radiating from the clitoris to the entire crotch. A minute later, my whole body began to tremble, the spasms did not stop, the residual heat did not dissipate, my breathing almost stopped, but the unforgettable pleasure still lingered.
From these warm and vivid descriptions, you can fully see the love and expectation of women for orgasm. Which girl doesn't want to have such a pleasant experience?
