Why do some people like to swear?
First of all, it must be made clear that the swear words here are not personal attacks or personality attacks, but a kind of humiliating language that can arouse the other party's sexual desire.
In layman's terms, it means saying some dirty words with color, and those who understand will understand.
A study published in the journal "Hormones Research" shows that when people cross these cultural taboos, the level of circulating testosterone secreted by the brain will increase significantly, and the increase in this hormone level usually reduces people's anxiety and increases sexual desire.
The stronger the taboo, the stronger the pleasure when breaking it.
The famous sex educator Holland Ktchadourian gave the answer in his sexology book "Sexology" - "Sarcastic and even obscene humor and "dirty words" will stimulate people's sexual desire."
Moreover, hearing itself is a strong stimulus receptor. If you also have this preference, then saying "dirty words" will directly hit your sexual fetish and give you a pleasant and stimulating pleasure.
Of course, all this is based on the premise that both parties like it.
At this point, everyone understands. Swearing can improve the quality of your love, but when you really implement it, you can't just say it whenever you want. There are a few key points that need special attention:
First, it is important to communicate in advance.
No matter what kind of swear words you say, at least you agree with this method. Before you speak, it is best to communicate with the other party first. If the other party clearly says no, don't take the risk to try it. After all, different people have different acceptance levels of swear words. For the same sentence, some people may think it is teasing, while others may think it is insulting.
Second, don't use it to attack people.
Although swear words sound a bit vulgar, swearing in bed is not actually used to scold people. So when you say this kind of words, don't use it to attack the other party, and don't take the opportunity to vent your dissatisfaction, such as your poor figure. The content of the swear words should be what the other party is willing to hear, and then you can play it appropriately.
Third, swear words can be more straightforward and explicit.
You can use more direct descriptions, such as "You are so slutty, it makes me feel so good, I want to fuck you!" The more straightforward the swear words are, the more powerful they are. In addition, unless there are special circumstances, do not speak in dialect. After all, too much expression of the atmosphere of the market may destroy the feeling of romance and ambiguity.
Finally, use the most gentle tone to say the most gentle dirty words.
Such a contrast can offset the aggressiveness of dirty words and amplify the stimulation of lust. The power of dirty words can make people go out of their brains and into their emotions, helping each other enter the deepest and wildest fantasies.
What I want to say is that straightforward dirty words can add some fun to the atmosphere and enhance the experience of sex. Boys can even try to be bolder and say some explicit words every time they have sex. If the girl is a little shy after listening, you can ask her to give some appropriate feedback, which can better stimulate each other's desire and improve the quality of your sex life.
