Because..
1.You’re amazing in bed
2.Sex with you is incredible
3.You are like a godess compares to the shit girlfriends he sees
4.He enjoys having sex with you and physical intimacy
5.You’re make him feel like he’s important and amazing
6.He thinks and feels that with you he can be himself and go wild with you
7.He is also wired this way and some people are wired to have sex without wanting to be in some label relationship, or dating, or marriage and see sex as an experience to explore with someone they can truly trust, admire and who they feel very safe with
8.And finally, because you enjoy sex too and you are willing to have sex with him, which is why you have sex with him. And I hope you don’t feel anything many will try to make you feel because there is nothing wrong enjoying sex, nothing wrong exploring with someone, gaining more experience and just embracing the experience for what it is. An experience to enjoy with someone who is a friend and someone you trust without the hassle, fucking heart break, mind games and competing on who pays the bills, wining dining and all the complications that come with it.
Why, you can have all these complications if you want and the headaches that come with it, and the heart breaks, and the many who will promise you eternal love, enternal divine romance, forever, happy ever after princess or cinderella story where every dating relationship and marriage always ends happily ever after.
Oh did I say, he also feels you are beautiful, he cannot get enough of you and he fantasises about you and whenever he thinks of you, his heart races fast, and it makes his dick hard, his mind free and his heart pound and all…because of thinking about you.
Funny isn’t it, how it took someone else to get you to see it this way than the dark, gloom, blah blah way that be in your head and everyone else’s.
Like “Oooh he just wants me for sex.”
That’s afterall what’s going through your head.
When someone dates you, they always wants something. Either it’s sex, either it’s time, either it is your emotional support, either it is to show you off to their friends, either it is to comfort their own insecurities or either to feel accepted, liked, approved and loved.
None of it is bad.
But what is stupid when you enjoy it and deny that is what you want.
When we are honest and clear on what we want, you can then be able to dress it, talk it, walk it and attract someone just like that and tell the rest to piss off as it’s none of their business and you’re not into what they want.
And there’s the delima…
The delima is, people are conditioned to feel shame for what they TRULY desire and yet the same people who want others to feel shame about it have no problem stealing from someone, screwing someone’s life, backstabbing someone, doing other things because “it’s different because it’s not sex.”
The same laws, same things that try to make you ashamed of what you want, make billions of money out of it.
And you was brought up feeling insecure about sex, so no surprise there too.
Question for you…
Do you want same as he does?
If not, fine, then say it to him and move on but don’t blame him, accuse him when you got a mind of our own too to decide what you want and say it, and if the person doesn’t want it, you can move on.
