How to approach a threesome:
1.Discuss bringing a third person into the relationship with your partner.
2.Talk about why you want to bring in a third. Is it for the experience? To spice the sex up? Maybe to do things outside of your comfort zone? Or simply because you want some pointers from another person.
3.Once you and your partner are on the same page find a partner together. This can be through a dating app or through meeting people physically at parties.
4.When you finally find a third, go on a date with them outside of the bedroom. Spend some time getting to know them over drinks or dinner. See if they are the right fit.
5.When you and your partner are ready, discuss boundaries. What is off the table? What is on the table? is kissing allowed? Will there be BDSM? Should y’all keep in touch with the partner?
