"Mom, where did I come from?" When we were young, we all asked our parents like this, but they always avoided not talking, or asked "you jumped out of the stone." For the growth of our generation, sex education is relatively missing, so many times we do n’t know how to give children sex education correctly, let alone how to talk to children about “sex”.
Today we will talk about this topic, when will sex education start? What is the most suitable time period to talk to children? How can parents speak sex education for their children?
We usually say: Parents are the first teachers of their children. Therefore, parents are also the first wayward education teacher of their children. When does sex education start? The answer is: birth.
The purpose of sex education is to guide children to learn correct sexual knowledge and form a healthy sexual psychological and sexual morality. Family education often does not need lectures, so do not adopt the "preaching" model. Good family education should penetrate and infection in daily life. The kindergarten&39;s toilets in the kindergarten are separated, the strange words about the opposite sex, about love at the elementary school stage, and then the hazy feelings in middle school ....... A little guiding children to know how to protect themselves.
Early sex education in the United States was 05 years old. The main points of sex education generally include: establish a correct and proper gender role; prevent sexual depression and sexual suppression since childhood; correctly answer sexual issues raised by children. Dr. Pilsa, a well known sexual metallototic expert in the United States, believes that parents should follow the following principles when conducting sexual education for children:
1. Parents should never formally "talk", but to find appropriate opportunities for education. They can also use the science popularization picture books of sexual education as the entry of children&39;s sex education. So that parents will not be embarrassed.
2. Sexual education does not have to have the same gender. As long as the child is doubtful, both parents can talk about it. Psychologists believe that the age of 24 is an important period of sexual education for children. In psychology, there is a period of sexual buds. It is specifically referring to the stage of special psychological development of children around 3 years old. Sexual issues are not because of their own physiological needs, but to satisfy their curiosity. Therefore, when the child asked you, do not vaguely or ashamed to open your teeth, let alone simply and rude. He should actively respond to the child&39;s curiosity and face sexual problems frankly.
3. Sexual education, first of all, it should be emphasized "what can you do", not "what you can&39;t do". In addition to being able to give a picture book, parents can also watch some science popularization videos of sex education with their children, such as the US anti sexual assault short film "How to Tell Your Child", etc., telling and guiding children what can be done by video telling and guiding children. No.
4. The education of sex and love is not only once in a lifetime. It needs to be continued, so don&39;t expect a education to make children immune for life. In addition, both parents should teach at the same time, and parents and parents are models that are closest to love and love.
According to the different ages of children, the following education can be made:
1. For children aged 03, parents should tell their children:
(1) Each child&39;s body belongs to themselves, and help children know their gender correctly, so that they can understand the differences between the sexes;
(2) Strangers cannot contact your body, but some adults can contact your body. If parents take a bath for their children, doctors or nurses check their bodies;
(3) If someone is scared, surprised, and uncomfortable, you must tell your parents when you are scared, surprised, and uncomfortable.
2. For preschool children 45 years old, parents should tell their children:
(1) Help children understand the correct names (such as penis, vagina, etc.) in various parts of the body. In the bathroom, parents can help you rub your farts or wash your fart; You can tell others clearly that you don&39;t like it;
(2) Let children understand that certain reproductive organs that cannot be exposed in the body, because this is personal privacy, not to say that some people&39;s body parts are shameful, but because of respect for personal privacy;
(3) There are differences between boys and girls, so do not let others touch their bodies casually, and do not touch others&39; bodies, let children learn to protect themselves; Conservative secrets, you must tell parents;
(4) When a adult does not have a legitimate reason, it is wrong to observe and touch the reproductive organs of a child. This is wrong;
(5) If an adult touches or observes the child in an abnormally way, there is no mistake in the child;
(6) Most adults do not have sexual assault on their children, but both boys and girls may encounter sexual assault.
