When using a dildo, the key is to adjust the depth of insertion based on your body's reactions, personal comfort, and needs. Different situations and experiences require flexible adjustments. Here are some helpful tips and ways to adjust the depth of insertion:
1. Relax fully
•Breathe deeply and relax: Before using the dildo, make sure your body is completely relaxed. Tension can cause vaginal muscles to contract and increase discomfort. Breathing deeply and relaxing your body can help you become more receptive to insertion.
•The importance of foreplay: Sufficient foreplay can help prepare the body, increase lubrication, and reduce discomfort.
2. Start shallow
•When using for the first time or trying a larger size: It is recommended to start with shallow insertion, about 3-5 cm, and observe your body's reaction. If it is uncomfortable at first, pause and adjust.
•After you feel comfortable, you can slowly increase the depth until you find the most suitable insertion depth.
3. Increase the depth gradually
•Push slowly: Don't rush to insert the full length of the dildo at once. Stop for a moment after every 2-3 cm to feel your body's reaction. If there is no discomfort, you can continue.
• Body reaction: If you feel comfortable, relaxed and pain-free, you can go deeper. If you start to feel discomfort or soreness, stop immediately and adjust.
4. Adjustment of insertion depth
• Avoid too deep insertion: Some women feel uncomfortable with too deep insertion, especially in the cervix. Generally speaking, the insertion depth should not exceed 10-15 cm. Exceeding this depth may increase the pressure and discomfort of the cervix.
• Cervical reaction: If the dildo is inserted too deep, it may hit the cervix and cause discomfort. The area near the cervix is a sensitive area, and it is recommended to avoid fast or forceful insertion. If you feel the cervix being hit, slow down, adjust the insertion angle, or choose a smaller size.
5. Adjustment of insertion angle
• The insertion angle is crucial to comfort. By adjusting the insertion angle, you can avoid cervical discomfort.
• When lying on your back, bend your knees and raise your pelvis appropriately to help adjust the angle and reduce discomfort.
• Lying on your side also allows you to control the depth and ensure that the insertion is more natural and comfortable.
• Adjusting the angle can be achieved by changing your body posture. Sometimes, simply adjusting the angle can greatly improve the experience.
6. Choose the right size
• For those who use dildos for the first time, it is recommended to choose a medium-sized dildo. It is not advisable to choose a large size at the beginning to avoid discomfort caused by too large a size.
• If you are used to a smaller size, gradually try a larger size and allow your body to gradually adapt.
7. Tips for using the vibration function
• For a vibrating dildo, you can adjust the vibration to low-frequency vibration at the beginning to help relax and increase pleasure. As the degree of adaptation increases, you can adjust it to high-frequency vibration to increase stimulation.
• Vibration can provide additional pleasure and help relaxation. Adjust the vibration frequency and intensity according to body feedback.
8. Observation of body reactions
• Increased pleasure: If you feel pleasure and no discomfort, it means that you have adapted to the current depth and can continue or increase the depth.
• Soreness or pain: If you start to feel soreness or pain, it means that the depth may be too large or inserted too quickly. At this time, you should stop immediately, adjust the depth or angle, or suspend use.
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