To help men reach anal orgasm, you can explore and try three aspects: manipulation, body position, and the use of sex toys.
• Gentle opening: When trying for the first time, it is recommended to use a lubricated finger to gently massage the area around the anus, gradually increase the pressure, let the other person relax, and reduce tension.
• Prostate stimulation: The key to anal orgasm is the stimulation of the prostate, which is located about 2.3 inches inside the anus. You can use your index or middle finger to slowly insert into the anus to massage the prostate. The action can be a gentle upward push, a circular action, or a gentle "tap".
• Vibration: By changing the finger movements (such as faster in and out, rotation, or vibration), you can enhance the stimulation of the prostate and achieve stronger pleasure.
• Rhythm control: You can adjust the rhythm according to the other person's reaction, and slowly increase the depth and speed. It is important to pay attention to communication with the other person to ensure that there is no discomfort.
• Kneeling or four-legged posture: This position can effectively expose the anus and bring deep stimulation to men. The other person can kneel and lean forward slightly to make it easier for the other person to stimulate the anus.
• Side-lying position: The side-lying position allows both parties to relax more, especially for those who are trying it for the first time, so that they can slowly adapt to insertion and anal stimulation. The other party can gently insert from behind and stimulate the prostate through manipulation.
• Doggy style position: This position can better mobilize the muscles in the anal area, make insertion and stimulation deeper, and have a more direct touch on the male prostate.
• Sitting position: The man sits on the partner, and the partner stimulates from behind. The man controls the rhythm to make himself more relaxed and increase the intensity of stimulation.
• Anal massager/prostate massager: These toys are specially designed to stimulate the male prostate, usually with a curved shape, which can better reach the prostate. When using, you can choose a vibrating massager, and the vibration function enhances pleasure.
• Vibrating butt plug: The size and vibration function of the butt plug can be selected according to personal preference. Start with a smaller vibrating butt plug, and try a larger size product after gradually adapting. The vibration effect enhances the dual stimulation of the anus and prostate.
• Dual stimulation toys: There are also some specially designed toys on the market, such as dual stimulators that can stimulate the anus and penis at the same time. These toys can effectively increase the intensity of orgasm.
• Airbag anal dilator: This toy expands the anus by inflating it to increase stimulation, but you need to be very careful when using it to avoid discomfort.
• Adequate lubrication: The anus is not naturally lubricated, so you need to use a lot of lubricants, especially when using toys. Silicone-based lubricants are usually longer-lasting and suitable for this situation.
• Relaxation and communication: The most important thing is to keep the other person relaxed, and communication is very important. The anal area is very sensitive, and any discomfort requires timely communication and adjustment of techniques.
