It has to be said that there are many differences in the attitudes of men and women on the issue of wearing condoms. Let's start with boys. According to many daily observations (although not very scientific and rigorous).
Many boys are reluctant to wear condoms, and the reason is mostly concentrated on "affecting comfort". From a physiological point of view, the tactile experience of not wearing condoms is indeed more direct, which is almost a common feeling of boys, but don't label boys who don't like wearing condoms as "scumbags" because of this. This is actually a human instinctive reaction.
In addition to direct physiological feelings, there are some objective factors that will affect boys' attitudes towards wearing condoms. For example, some people are allergic to latex, which may not only affect boys, but also girls; and after wearing a condom, I always feel that there is an extra layer of "gap" between myself and my partner. If the size is not suitable, there will be a sense of restraint; if the friction speed is fast during exercise, the dry feeling will greatly reduce the experience.
But many boys may not know that wearing a condom actually has a greater impact on girls' touch!
Although condoms have their own lubricants and will naturally secrete liquid to assist lubrication during use, the touch after wearing that layer of film is indeed very different from the touch without condoms. Especially after a long time, the lubricant is exhausted, and the condom is left with only an "empty shell", and girls can easily feel dry and uncomfortable.
From the perspective of feeling, the clear outline and unique shape of boys' private parts, the touch brought by these details are very important to girls. But after wearing condoms, these features are weakened, the stimulation is instantly reduced, and the original real fleshy feeling becomes a cold plastic touch, and the "alienation" is even more obvious. The problem of "alienation" is always mentioned on the Internet, but girls actually care more!
However, sharing these feelings with everyone is by no means encouraging everyone not to wear condoms. Like or not is one thing, wearing or not is about responsibility and health. Not wearing condoms may be a temporary relief, but if you get pregnant unexpectedly later, the responsibility of having children will be heavier. Moreover, condoms are more than just contraceptives. They can also effectively block various bacteria and viruses and protect each other's health.
If you think ordinary condoms are too "isolated", you might as well try 0.01 ultra-thin condoms and use them with lubricants to reduce dryness and discomfort and improve the experience.
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