This is always a gradual process, during which we need to use a lot of lubricants and toys. These toys need to be prepared in small, medium and large sizes. As strength continues to develop, needs will also be different. You can't say I will buy a big one later. I bought a big one the first time.
When choosing toys, the length should not be too long, otherwise it will bleed, and the material should be as soft as possible. Too soft will cause sphincter strain.
1. Soothe emotions
No matter how many times you have anal sex, you should treat it like the first time.
Girls are not very receptive to this matter, so boys need to constantly build their mentality, soothe the other party's emotions, let the other party feel at ease to give their bodies to you, and keep telling the other party "I will be gentle".
Note that this kind of soothing emotions should be done before, during and after anal sex. It is not wrong not to soothe when you do it because the other party agrees. You must continue to soothe during the process. What you need to consider is that you are doing a very meaningful "development" project. This will not only make the other person very cooperative during the process, but also make the other person have a good impression of you; afterwards, you should also give the other person the greatest encouragement, after all, the other person is the one who pays the most.
2. Cleaning
You can choose to mix lubricant and water in a ratio of 1:10. Lubricant alone will be very viscous and uncomfortable. It is recommended to use mineral water instead of tap water. You can use a syringe to inject the prepared solution into the anus. Be careful to inject it little by little, not too much, and then let the other person squeeze it out little by little. If you inject too much at a time, it will spray out. A small amount and multiple times will do.
3. Entering
Apply some lubricant to the hole, then gently insert it with your fingers, starting from half a knuckle, and then add a little more lubricant. Note that the nails should be trimmed clean, and then put on the finger cot.
You can use a mini pearl chain to insert it little by little, and always keep it soothing during the period. Don't insert it all at once, leave a section to facilitate pulling out, and don't move too violently suddenly. Pull it out slowly, and be sure to be slow to avoid bleeding when pulling it out.
After repeated attempts, you can try inserting the butt plug again, or push it in slowly to let the anus adapt slowly, and don't push hard when there is only a little left.
When the other person has adapted to this intensity, let your little DD enter.
A few questions
Q: Will anal sex cause pooping?
A: Not necessarily. If you happen to be constipated or have diarrhea, you may feel embarrassed.
Q: Why do women in movies wear butt plugs during sex?
A: Butt plugs do not bring pleasure when inserted into the anus. However, after insertion, they will stretch the intestines and compress the vagina, making it narrower. At this time, it will be more comfortable when inserted.
Q: Can anal sex lead to orgasm?
A: Yes, but it is difficult. The pleasure brought by anal sex is not insertion in the rectum, but finding the right angle during insertion, touching the G-spot of the vagina next door through the rectum, and thus triggering orgasm.
Q: Does anal sex make the anus looser?
A: Yes, if you have anal sex frequently.
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