Authoritative data shows that only one-third of women can reach orgasm stably in regular sex. There are too many neglected truths hidden behind this number. Today, let us unveil the mystery of female orgasm together.
1. Break the shackles of sexual concepts and release inner desires
The impact of sexual concepts on women is far more profound than we think. Some girls have been instilled with the idea that "men are not good" since childhood. Even if they form a family as adults, they still subconsciously resist intimate contact. Just like Sister Zhang, her mother always complains to her about her father's cheating, making it difficult for her to accept even the slightest touch from her husband after marriage. This psychological shadow is like an invisible yoke, which seriously affects the quality of intimate relationships.
2. Understand body language and unlock the evolutionary code
From a biological point of view, the human body hides a wonderful evolutionary code. Scientists have found that the human clitoris was originally located in the vagina, just like cats, rabbits and other animals, and the clitoris can be directly stimulated during mating. However, in the process of human evolution, the clitoris gradually moved outside the body, which means that additional stimulation is needed to awaken it. This also explains why 90% of women need sufficient foreplay. Only by patiently and gently awakening the body can you open the door to pleasure.
At this time, a high-quality sex toy may be the best helper to awaken the body! The trendy digital display massager is made of medical-grade silicone, which is safe and skin-friendly. Multiple vibration modes can accurately simulate different stimulation rhythms. Whether it is foreplay warm-up or used alone, it can help you quickly find the sensitive points of the body, making every intimate experience full of surprises.
3. Foreplay: The key prelude to intimate experience
How well the foreplay is done directly determines the quality of the intimate experience. But unfortunately, 90% of straight men do not understand the "war signals" sent by the female body. When a girl's nipples are erect, her skin is red, and her private parts are swollen, it is the best time for intimacy. If you are eager to "go straight to Huanglong", it's like thawing a steak in a microwave, crispy on the outside and tender on the inside. Remember, foreplay is not an optional link, but an indispensable and wonderful prelude to intimacy.
4. The wonderful rhythm of hormones
At the moment of climax, a double storm of "prolactin + oxytocin" will be set off in women's bodies. This phenomenon stems from the ovulation mechanism left over from ancient times. Although modern women do not need to ovulate through sexual intercourse, the memory of genes still makes us desire this pleasant experience. Understanding the wonderful rhythm of hormones can make us enjoy the pleasure brought by intimate moments more calmly.
5. Create a safe environment to enhance the intimate experience
The impact of the environment on female orgasm cannot be underestimated. Imagine, in a shared house with poor sound insulation, or in a private and romantic love hotel, which environment is easier to relax? The survey shows that 73% of women said that the sense of security brought by the environment directly affects the probability of orgasm. You might as well carefully arrange your "private space", hang soundproof curtains, light warm light table lamps, and light scented candles, so that every intimate contact is full of ritual and security.
6. Scientific contraception, enjoy with peace of mind
Contraception issues often become a major obstacle in intimate relationships. 22-year-old Xiaomei once admitted: "Every time he said he could have sex with her, I was as nervous as a wooden man." In fact, scientific contraception can increase the probability of orgasm by 40%. Methods such as ejaculation outside the body and calculating the safe period are extremely uncertain, making women feel nervous in intimate relationships. It is recommended to use ultra-thin 001 condoms so that you can enjoy intimate time with peace of mind.
7. Dispel psychological shadows and regain confidence in intimacy
Girls who have been PUA are often prone to "intimate phobia", just like people who have been burned will instinctively retreat when they see flames. If you have similar troubles, you must bravely seek professional psychological counseling. With the help of professionals, heal the inner trauma and rebuild trust and confidence in intimate relationships.
8. Face up to male problems and explore happiness together
Male problems are also an important factor affecting female orgasm. The cruel reality is that a husband's premature ejaculation will cause his wife's orgasm rate to plummet by 83%. But this does not mean that intimate relationships will be bleak.
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