The key to reaching orgasm is to find the most sensitive part, use the right stimulation method, control the rhythm, and fully immerse yourself in it.
• Create an atmosphere: Choose a comfortable environment, such as a soft bed, a warm bathtub, or even a blanket on the sofa, to completely relax your body.
• Psychological suggestion: Imagine that you are being touched and caressed, and you can use fantasy, sexy pictures or sounds to increase excitement.
• Explore the body: Use your palm to gently stroke your collarbone, chest, waist, and inner thighs to slowly warm up your skin.
(1) Clitoris stimulation - the most efficient source of pleasure
• Finger technique
• Use your fingertips to gently circle, from slow to fast, and observe which rhythm is most comfortable.
• Slide up and down, tap, or pinch and rub back and forth with two fingers to make the stimulation more three-dimensional.
• One hand can pull the labia apart to allow the clitoris to be stimulated more directly and increase the intensity of pleasure.
• Tongue & toys (such as vibrators)
• If you have a vibrator, you can place it on the clitoris and vibrate it gently, starting with a low frequency and then gradually increasing the intensity.
• Ice and fire experience: You can first slide an ice cube over the clitoris to allow the nerve endings to feel subtle stimulation, then use your fingers or tongue to lick it warmly, creating a pleasure shock of alternating hot and cold.
(2) G-spot massage - deep pleasure
How to find it:
• First gently insert your fingers, with your palm facing up, and bend your fingers to make a "come here" motion.
• Press gently to feel whether there is obvious pleasure. If so, it means you have found the right position.
Stimulation method:
• Slow pressure: Apply light pressure with your fingers and massage slowly, and you can feel a gradually rising tingling sensation.
• Fast thrusting: Keep your fingers bent and press the G-spot lightly to make the pleasure more intense.
• Combined with clitoral stimulation: Massage the G-spot with one hand and stimulate the clitoris with the other hand. This "double pleasure" can accelerate the arrival of orgasm.
(3) Nipples & areola
• Gently rub with the fingertips, or pinch and gently pull with two fingers to make the nipples hard and increase sensitivity.
• Licking and sucking (if there are toys or warm objects to imitate the feeling of the mouth) can increase excitement.
• Ice stimulation: Slide ice cubes over the nipples, and then gently rub them with warm fingers. The contrast between cold and hot can make the pleasure more layered.
• Slow first and then fast: The movements should be gentle at the beginning, and gradually speed up the rhythm to let the excitement accumulate slowly.
• Adjust the intensity: If you are stimulating with your fingers, you can try to press gently and hard at times to let the nerve endings feel the changes.
• Pause appropriately: When you are about to reach the peak, pause for a few seconds and then continue. This "playing hard to get" method can make the final climax more intense.
• Deep breathing with pleasure: When the climax is approaching, take a deep breath, hold your breath for a few seconds, and then release it, which will make the climax feel more explosive.
• Shortness of breath, faster heartbeat, and even uncontrollable panting.
• Body trembling, especially the thighs, waist, and even the entire abdomen will tremble slightly.
• Vaginal muscles contract, and when the pleasure reaches its peak, you will feel the involuntary strong spasm of the vagina, like waves of impact.
• The pleasure spreads, sometimes spreading from the lower abdomen to the whole body, making the whole person immersed in the afterglow of the climax.
• Relax your whole body after orgasm. Some women may even feel a brief sense of exhaustion or weakness.
• Caress your body gently and let the pleasure slowly fade away instead of ending it immediately.
• Hug yourself. You can curl up in a blanket and feel the satisfaction after orgasm.
• Take deep breaths to restore your body to stability. Some women may experience mood swings after orgasm (for example, they may suddenly feel very relaxed or even want to cry), which is normal.
