During sex, women crave intercourse, and crave to embrace and feel the other&39;s penis with their vagina.
Sexual intercourse is an interactive behavior
While the man is inserting and pumping, the woman&39;s warm vagina wraps and grips the man&39;s penis, and both parties can get pleasure. It can be extremely slow and gentle, or hard and impactful, or both.
The huge contact between the bodies, minds and private parts of both parties, the most profound and intimate union of two people. To get pleasure, the woman herself must first feel excited and sexually aroused so that the vagina can be fully lubricated and relaxed. The arousal stage of women often takes longer than that of men. If you have no sexual experience, or are angry with your husband, or your husband only does "insert and finish" intercourse, and does not do all kinds of sex around intercourse, then insertion (especially when your vagina is dry) will be meaningless, uncomfortable or even painful.
Some positions may make you more excited (maybe different positions every time you have sex). "Man on top" is not necessarily the most ideal position "by nature". Try the woman on top position, side-lying position, where you can stretch your legs over his legs, sit on him, and let his penis enter your vagina, or he can insert it from behind, then put his arms around you and touch your clitoris. If you want to penetrate deeply and put pressure on your cervix, choose a position that can do this. However, people&39;s bodies are different, so you need to find a position that suits you.
The core content of sexual intercourse is the union and common happiness of both parties, not necessarily orgasm
Many women cannot reach orgasm during sexual intercourse. Sometimes "struggling" for orgasm makes people nervous, but it is not absolute. Sometimes, consciously reaching orgasm is very exciting. When the preparation is not sufficient, the man may be highly sexually excited at the beginning of sexual intercourse. If he inserts too quickly in your vagina, and you move your pelvis quickly in rhythm with his rhythm, he may reach orgasm first. To coordinate this difference, it is better to slow down the rhythm appropriately until the woman has enough sexual excitement in her body. Try to keep your bodies still for a while after he inserts, and then start to move slowly together. Slower movements can delay ejaculation for the man, allowing both parties to enjoy more pleasure. For some women, the pressure of the penis on the cervix is the key factor in their orgasm; other women prefer vulvar or clitoral stimulation. It is best to communicate sexual feelings with each other through words or actions.
