♦Pay attention to her behavior ♦Respectful communication ♦Analyze language code
To determine whether a girl is willing to have sex, pay attention to these 5 signals:
If she can't take her hands off you, frequently touches you, hugs you close to your ears, or actively touches sensitive parts, she may be ready for intimacy. If she touches your genitals through your clothes, or puts your hand on her chest, these sexy body languages are more clearly directed. In addition, she is more expressive around you, often because of her high trust and comfort in you - this is an important prerequisite for intimacy.
If you have never kissed, the possibility of having a relationship is low. If you have established deeper intimate contact (such as touching breasts, exploring private parts, or even oral sex), she may be more open. Note: Oral sex does not mean sexual permission. Some women will try it when they are not ready, and some women insist on having sex before kissing. If she resists your further physical contact for a long time, be sure to respect the boundaries.
When she suddenly gets rid of her friends and frequently invites you to be alone or in a private space, it may be a signal of an upgrade in the relationship. But if she avoids situations where you are completely alone, it means that more time is needed to build trust.
When you are invited to her house for the first time or you are guided to a private space in a planned way, it often requires careful planning. This behavior of actively creating opportunities for solitude may imply that she wants to advance the relationship. But be careful: even if she accepts the invitation to stay overnight, she may just want to have a deep rest with you.
If she suddenly brings a bag with a significantly larger capacity to the date, or prepares it specially when staying overnight at your house, it may contain sexual innuendo. But you need to look at it rationally: although snuggling before bed is intimate, it does not necessarily lead to sexual behavior, and you still need to make a comprehensive judgment based on other signals.
The topic should be started when both parties are relaxed, and avoid raising it in public or non-private environments. Prepare contraceptives in advance but do not deliberately show them, keep a natural attitude.
Enhance her pleasure experience through dating, and create opportunities for solitude after multiple warm interactions. If you are already in a private space and your clothes are half-removed, you can seize the opportunity to confirm your willingness. If you are only in the primary stage of intimacy (such as kissing on the sofa), asking too early may be counterproductive.
Look into her eyes and replace direct sexual hints with "Are you ready to take it a step further?" Emphasize the principle of voluntariness: "No matter when you say stop, I fully respect it." Make sure both parties are sober and avoid impulsive decisions after drinking.
If you get a positive answer, you should proceed with a considerate attitude; if you are rejected, you need to show full acceptance: "I understand your rhythm, and let me know when you are ready." Never put pressure or question, otherwise it will seriously damage trust.
If she suddenly becomes keen on discussing sex-related content (such as friends' experiences, physiological knowledge), or actively mentions it when she is alone, it may be a signal of interest. However, the real intention needs to be judged in the specific context.
When she specifically compliments your figure rather than the details of your appearance (such as "the chest muscle lines are very sexy"), it may be a signal of physical attraction. If such compliments are given at an intimate moment, it implies the possibility of accepting further contact.
If she mentions the comfort of the bed many times, or actively demonstrates lying postures, it may be paving the way for coexistence. However, it should be noted that simply complimenting the bed does not necessarily point to sexual intentions.
If she frankly says "I am particularly excited today" or "I want to have more intimate contact with you", although it is not absolutely allowed, it has released positive signals. The authenticity needs to be comprehensively judged in combination with body language.
If she starts to use explicit words to flirt, or makes sexual jokes in private, she may have broken through the psychological defense line. But be careful: some women may test your reaction boundaries in this way.
