The key to making your wife reach orgasm is the dedication of foreplay, the mastery of skills, the control of rhythm, and the dual stimulation of psychology and physiology.
A woman's body is like a stove that needs to be slowly ignited, not a machine that can heat up directly by entering.
• Deep kiss ignites passion
It is not a casual kiss, but a teasing and varied kiss. First touch her lips lightly, let the tip of your tongue slide over, then slowly go deeper, and occasionally bite her lower lip, which will make her whole body warm.
• Don't ignore the ears, neck, shoulders, and sensitive areas
Gently lick her earlobes, blow your breath slightly hot and moist in her ears, and whisper teasingly, such as: "I want to make you comfortable..." Her body will naturally tremble and her heartbeat will accelerate.
• From the neck all the way down, let her feel your control
Use your fingertips to gently sweep her collarbone, the inside of her arms, and the side of her waist, slowly but firmly, and occasionally add gentle kisses and wet licks to gradually increase the sensitivity of her skin.
Different women have different sensitivities, but the following areas are usually the core areas of orgasm:
(1) Clitoris stimulation - the core of pleasure
The clitoris is the place where women's pleasure is most concentrated. The right technique can quickly get her into the mood.
• Finger technique: Use the tip of your finger to gently circle and massage, from slow to fast, and observe her reaction. Try different techniques, such as "drawing an 8" or "sliding up and down", until you find the rhythm that she enjoys the most.
• Tongue technique: Use the tip of your tongue to circle, touch, and lick, while adjusting the intensity, sometimes fast and sometimes slow, with appropriate sucking, you can make her spasm instantly.
• Lips and sucking: Gently hold the clitoris, create gentle suction, and let the pleasure build up layer by layer.
• Bonus skills: When she is about to reach orgasm, suddenly slow down, and then increase the stimulation. This "fast and slow alternation" play can make her orgasm more intense.
(2) G-spot massage - deep pleasure
The G-spot is located about 2.3 cm from the front wall of the vagina and feels like a sponge-like bulge.
• Finger massage: Use the middle finger or index finger to gently bend and massage the G-spot like a "hook hand". The force ranges from light to heavy. Combined with rhythmic pressing or rapid thrusting, she can feel deeper pleasure.
• Combined with clitoral stimulation: Use the other hand or tongue to stimulate the clitoris at the same time to form a "double stimulation", which makes it easy for her to reach orgasm quickly.
(3) Nipples and areola - additional sources of pleasure
• Use your tongue to circle and gently bite the nipple, and then suddenly hold and suck it, so that she can feel different levels of stimulation.
• Gently rub with fingers, or alternately stimulate with ice cubes and hot tongue to make the pleasure richer.
A woman's orgasm is accumulated gradually, not all at once, so mastering the rhythm is crucial.
(1) Gradually increase the temperature
• Start with gentle caressing and kissing, and slowly deepen the stimulation, as if to make her "crave more", don't rush for success.
• Use eyes and words to tease her, so that her psychological excitement and physical pleasure rise simultaneously.
(2) Change the rhythm and create a sense of anticipation
• Slowly go deep → gradually speed up → suddenly slow down → increase again, let her feel the "ups and downs" of pleasure, this method is easier for her to reach orgasm than a single rhythm.
• When she is close to the peak, slow down a little, and then suddenly speed up, which will make her orgasm more explosive.
Every woman's orgasm response is different, but you can usually tell she is close to the peak by the following signals:
• Breathing becomes rapid, moaning becomes deeper, and the voice changes from gentle to rapid or even uncontrolled.
• The pelvis unconsciously rises to try to cater to your movements.
• Legs clamped or tremble slightly, and the whole body may even tremble.
• After the orgasm, the whole body relaxes or becomes limp, entering a short "trance state".
