In the eyes of many people, masturbation is a normal physiological need for boys, but they have always ignored the fact that women have the same needs, and even stigmatized female masturbation in an attempt to put it into the cage of improper moral kidnapping.
1. "Modern Family" was broadcast on TV, and the picture was quite explicit. I touched my lower body unconsciously. At that time, I was completely unconscious and didn't know what it meant. But soon the numb feeling filled my whole body, and I had an understanding of masturbation. At first, because I came from a religious family, I thought masturbation was a humiliating thing, but now I know that everyone has physiological needs, girls too, and there is nothing to be shy about. "
—— spencer.
2. "It has been almost three years since I first masturbated. But just a few months ago, I was ashamed to admit to others that I had masturbated. Every time after finishing, my heart is always full of regret and shame. I swear that I will never do this again, but every time I can't control my hands. However, since I entered college, I realized that this is not such a shameful thing. It should be said that most girls have done this, and I am not an exception. Having this need shows that I am a normal person, and I should face and accept this thing calmly. "
—— Malia.
3. "I am used to reading pornographic novels, and then I imagine some erotic plots and complete them with my hands. I masturbate quite frequently, about four times a week, but I never admit that I have masturbated when others ask me. It's not that I think this is so embarrassing, but I think it's a private matter, why should I tell outsiders?"
—— Noelle.
4. "I started masturbating last year. I was a little nervous at first, but after trying it, I found that it felt really good. I am used to having sex before going to bed, which makes me sleep better. Before, I used to rub my body with a pillow, but now I am used to using my hands. The feeling of orgasm is really wonderful, and I can't refuse that feeling. Besides, isn't it nice to make yourself happy before you find someone who can make you happy?"
—— Annaka.
5. "After my first orgasm, I had one almost every night. I like to stimulate my clitoris directly, which is the only way I can orgasm."
—— Jackie.
6. "I broke up with my boyfriend and was very sad. My friend told me to release myself, so I locked myself in the room, caressed my body, and completed my first masturbation. Since then, I have averaged three times a week and often regret why I didn't learn it earlier! It taught me how to cherish myself and make myself happy, and I am proud of it!"
—— Avery.
7. "My most frequent time is once a day, and I need to watch porn because I can't make myself want just by imagining. I never feel ashamed of it. If a close enough friend asks me, I never deny the experience of masturbation. I even make jokes about masturbation in the friend group. This is normal. ”
—— Fran.
8. “ I masturbate about one to three times a week. At first, I either used my hands or the shower head. But now that I am 18, I bought myself a dildo.”
—— Jill.
9. “ The first time I masturbated, it was completely unconscious. I liked to read some pornographic stories at that time, and I was used to putting a pillow between my legs, which made my legs feel very comfortable. As I read, I felt it, and my hand reached over... I didn't dare to mention it to others for fear of being criticized. But as I got older, I heard more about it and realized that it was a very normal thing.”
—— Ada.
10. “ The first time I did that, I felt really ashamed and excited. I didn't even need to imagine any plot to help myself. I was completely immersed in that kind of happiness. It not only gave me happiness, but it was also safe. I didn't have to worry about anything else, and it was very effective in relieving stress. ”
—— Michaela.
11. “I felt really uncomfortable when I tried it for the first time, because I always felt that it was a very ‘dirty’ thing. The reason why I tried it was because my relationship with my boyfriend was getting closer and closer, and sooner or later we would have sex, so I wanted to get familiar with my body first and see how to make myself more comfortable. I looked up the methods introduced on the Internet and chose to use a shower. I adjusted the water flow to a relatively gentle speed and slowly rushed towards my body... Over time, the initial sense of shame slowly disappeared, and I felt that it was something to be proud of. ”
—— jordyn.
12. “The first time I didn’t know how to do it, I could only slowly explore and find the stimulation point according to the feeling of my body. When I was doing it, I liked to imagine that I was doing that kind of thing with the boy I liked. Later, I wanted to buy a dildo to help myself, but I was worried that my family would find out, so I didn’t buy it in the end. ”
—— Kelly.
13. “I once tried to tell my friends about the benefits of masturbation, and they were all shocked and their expressions made people feel very uncomfortable. But I think it is a manifestation of cherishing your body. Not only should you not be ashamed, but you should be proud of it. "
—— Lacey.
14. " I started with my hands, and later I bought a small dildo, and masturbated while watching pornographic novels or movies. I was conquered by the feeling, and from then on I knew that this would be something that would accompany me for the rest of my life. But later my mother found out, and she talked to me and told me that it was a very normal thing, but I should make sure to do it in my own private space. "
—— tori.
15. " The numbness that came over my whole body the first time is something I still can't forget. I don't know how to describe that feeling, I just know that I really want it. I am used to using my hands, and I also used the shower head in between, and I like novels with descriptions of young men and women having sex, which really works for me. ”
——Zaire.
16. The first time I masturbated was when I was in college, but it was more like an accidental surprise. I didn’t know how I felt comfortable when I was taking a shower. Now I only remember that I was very happy at that time, and I can’t remember anything else. I was very depressed after leaving my first job the year before last. I don’t know why I suddenly liked to watch certain plots in movies, and even took the initiative to find small movies to watch. Later, I paid attention to Naimer Academy and saw some popular science articles, so I began to consciously DIY. Last year, I bought my first small toy in my life on Qingxing’s platform. Now I play with it when I want to, and sometimes I also use it as a way to relieve stress. I like the process of arousing myself, and I also like the feeling of bursting instantly, but sometimes I feel inexplicably melancholy after playing. In fact, I also want to meet someone I like as soon as possible and experience skin-to-skin contact hahaha.
——Dili Da.
17. The first time was when I was a freshman in college and watched the American TV series Masters of Sex. It mentioned that women can get orgasms without penetration at all, which surprised me. So one day I found it very comfortable when I was holding the quilt, and I couldn't help but speed up... Then the door to a new world opened up hahaha. Later, I taught my boyfriend how to help me masturbate, and then verified that I was indeed a person who had a hard time getting orgasms (but it was also very comfortable)
——Acog.
